is it concern or curiosity for wanting to see pics of this child? I'm sorry but if you are really that concerned about this child then you would go thru some sort of legal route to establish paternity....its so easy to say you want to be there but actions speak louder than words...the guy that got me pregnant said the same thing a few times during my daughter's life but when he was faced with the actuality of the situation...he just made some other excuses to not be a part of her life