About Me: Female, oldbury, United Kingdom, member since Sep 2011
My name is Lydia, i am 24 and me and my husband only got married 3 months ago. On return from an amazing week in the canaries we found out we were pregnant.
We were so ex
[More]cited we wanted to wait to tell everyone but we was so excited we couldnt keep it in, so at 9 weeks everybody knew.
We went for our 12 weeks scan on friday, we couldnt sleep the night before and we spend the whole of the drive figuring out who we were going to tell first and show off our little angel too. When we were called in i remember holding my breathe, i dint no why after akk nothing was going to go wrong, the nurse then says i cant find your baby i am going to have to do an internal. I looked at my husband but still kept thinking everything is ok nothing is wrong, the little bugger just doesnt wanna be found. So they did the internal and we found our baby, unfortunatley they couldnt find a hearbeat, they said i was 11 weeks pregnant but the baby was only 8 weeks.
I think i am finding it hard to accept because i have had no signs, no bleeding, spotting, cramps ect nothing to show anything is wrong, i can not quite beleive that after over 3 weeks i wouldnt have started to do something at least but i feel fine, i have heartburn but apart from that all is good.
I have been told to wait until friday to see what happens if nothing has then they want to do another scan. I can come to terms with the loss of our child if thats the case but i also have a niggling feeling i cant explain that has me doubting them dismissing it so quickly. What if i have my dates wrong what if they have it wrong am i willing to make a fast decision on getting rid if there is a 1% chance of it not been correct, like i said i am not clinging onto false hope but i need to be sure
You hear about women that dont no they are pregnant till they are giving birth, my cousin was 5 months pregnant till she found out, so if that can happen whats to say other miracles dont
Has anybody else got a similer story because i cant find any1 else with my symptoms, if so i would like to hear from you so i no it isnt just me going mad and to shed some light on your outcomes and how you dealt with it
i will let you no what happens xx
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