Welcome to Medhelp's Relationship forum. I was in a bad relationship and it was hard to leave, but when i did i found the partner of my dreams, I hate to think about where i would be had i not respected myself enough to get single again, and give this new relationship a chance. When one door shuts , another one opens. You sound like a very reasonable person to be with. Always there is a period of adjustment, but early on you see when a GOOD relationship should continue. You haven't got there yet, but, if you give yourself a chance, you will. God Speed.