wow! I have thought of searching "shaky hands" on the internet for a long time. Finally did and came upon your post. It stands out to me because I could have written it myself. I have tried anti-anxiety meds and the stronger things like xanex (which works like a charm, but fear I could become very addicted). Instead, I just have a couple drinks before going into any social situation that may require me to lift or grab a drink from a table or someone. Interesting is that my older brother suffers from the same thing, but we fail to talk about it openly (however obvious). I would love to finally "shake" this...pun intended!