Thank you for everything!
Andy, Thanks for the advise and no I realize it isn't on my husband's shoulders I'm trying to figure out what to do. On one hand he says he thought about leaving me because of my problem and the next he is asking me to go out to the bars drinking???? When I didn't drink He said I was no fun at all now.....I do think I need to talk to someone because he has been unfaithful and because of my own inability to forget or even forgive maybe that is why this has happened.
Thanks again my Scottish friend, I'm a little Scottish myself :)
Thank you for the welcome, I found this site searching out a diagnoses...very cool...How are you?