hi, this is remar. i read your post about paxil. i used to take 20mgs and had sexual problems and alot of weight gain. after a year i went of it. i decided after problems with effexor that i would try paxil again, only at 10mgs this time. i have very little sexual problems on that dose. it takes a little longer to be satisfied if you know what i mean, but on 20 mgs nothing would happen. can you let me know what dose your on and can you go down to 10 mgs? are you taking it for depression or anxiety or both? i had to add xanax at this low dose of paxil but it's worth it,my husband and i have a sex life. congrats on getting married! corena