I am so very sorry to hear what you are going through. My mother, father, grandmother, uncle (2) all died of cancer, and recently we had a close call with my daughter and lymphoma, but thank god she didnt have it.
I am joining this group, as I have been the primary caretaker of my mother for a long 5 yrs after she got her diagnosis, so all in all I am unfortunatly familiar with cancer, and with the family background, know my odds.
How is your husband doing now?
My best friend's husband was diagnosed with cancer 3yrs ago, had major surgery to remove it all (face, neck and shoulder), and they gave him 3mths, but he is still going.
Sometimes I feel as if I am surrounded by cancer. I dont know, but it seems to me that more people are getting it and they seem to get younger.