Hello,
Don't know if you will get to read this but
I came across your posts.
I have -22 in right eye and -17 in left. Have used RGB's for almost 20 years and have managed to avoid glasses which don't give me good vision.RGB's are not as easy to get used to as soft but as far as I know they give
better vision than soft specially if you have astigmatism and only some soft contacts are as oxygen permeable as they are.
I also believe that myopic people should only get implants when they have cataracts which really impair their vision.
Hope your wife has found the ideal options for her.
Best wishes,
Sophia