Just a quick note to say thank you for writing in about your article. I have just added mine just now and I too wonder about BPD and the man I was with for so long.
Meagan,
these 2 books were of immense help to me during and, especially after my relationship with my BPD ex-boyfriend ended.
I highly recommend them as they will offer useful insights regarding inter-personal relationships with a Borderline. Both books especially, "... Boomerang Love" offer invaluable suggestions in how the non-Borderline loved one can help themselves and heal from Borderline relationships. Best wishes to you.
iam1butterfly
"Stop Walking on Eggshells" by Paul T. Mason and Randi Kreger
"Breaking Free From Boomerang Love" by Lynn Melville