Hello,
it is difficult to second guess a psychologist's impressions based on scores alone, because so much the art of assessing young children is observing their behavior during testing. IQ scores from children under 6 are also less reliable than scores obtained after age 6. It is best to consider these scores in terms of the range of performance, and not as hard and fast numbers. It seems safe to say that your daughter has a considerable strength in nonverbal reasoning. Her nonverbal score is well above the superior range, so that is excellent. When you say her verbal IQ was 'only' 114, keep in mind that that is a great score, as it falls at the top of the average range (she probably performs better than about 75% of her peers on verbal tasks).
While her processing speed is 'significantly' lower (in terms of statistical significance) compared to those very high scores, it is solidly within the average range. At her age, I would not draw the conclusion that she meets diagnostic criteria for ADHD based on that score. I am not sure how you learned that she was reading on a first grade level, but I can tell you that for a kindergartener to read on a first grade level is wonderful. Children with learning disabilities read below grade level, and struggle with critical facets of reading such as sounding out words and comprehension.
For a child to qualify for special education services in the public schools, she has to meet diagnostic criteria for a disability and that disability has to have a measurable educational impact. It does not sound like your daughter meets eligibility criteria for for special education services and accommodations.
Its natural to worry about your kids, and to want to optimize their potential, but there are some developmental factors to keep in mind. Most 5 year olds do not read and write--especially in the first three months of kindergarten. Most 5 year-olds do 'dilly dally' and procrastinate, particularly when the kindergarten class does not meet their needs for movement, multi-sensory experiences, and play. Your daughter is young, and she is still adapting to full day kindergarten, so inconsistency and asking for expectations to be clarified is not unexpected. This class sounds like a setting that does not take into account the kinds of experiences young children need to have at this age. Check out Dr. Jane Healy's book Your Child's Growing Mind to learn more about what to expect at each age and as she grows, this will help you determine if something is truly wrong as she progresses. In the mean time, enjoy your gifted child, because it sounds like a lot is going well.
Best Wishes
Rebecca Resnik
Thanks for your input!
Dana
Sherry
Thanks for your kind words. I appreciate it... We were fortunate enough to have insurance that covered testing...it's VERY expensive.
Dana