Help with ADHD partner

[sh236u]

hello

[Sandman2]

     Check out the web site - totallyadd.com -  it uses videos to talk about adult ADD.  In fact, it was a PBS special not that long ago.  It is really entertaining and very informative.  Once you have seen it, if it looks like this could be the case - then tell her that you have found a really interesting site and watch it together.  Even easier might be to buy the DVD from the site so you could watch it on TV.   Knowing that you are not the only person in the world with this problem makes it less likely to "pop a gasket".   Hope this helps!

[sh236u]

Hello,  I have been marrid 13 years and with my wife for nearly 20. She was injured six years ago and now she is disabled (to a point). I have been noticing alot of issues with her focusing and not getting things done around the house. She cant/wont even keep up on the bills or do very important dissability paperwork. I thought for a long time she was just little slow but I'm starting to think she has ADHD. I cant confront her because she has a temper and I know she will pop a gaket. I have thought about separation but how do you do that to someone you care about and may have a medical condition. Any help or advice would be helpfull

[mdalex]

Hello sh236u,

I found this article on adhd, I don't know if the line below works:
ADHD

[Sandman2]

  kind of depends on the question :)

[sh236u]

Anyone out there for advice before I go in to details