My three year old, who is by nature, a strong spirited child. Yet she has a real sweet disposition.
The last while it is going. she is soo difficult argues with everything, refuses to listen period even when I have tried time outs, put her in her crib, closed the door, taken away toys, on and on to no avail. I now find myself yelling llouder and louder. She hits her father, me as well. Tells as to go away, she does not like us etc. And to top it off never sleeps through the night. I am trying sooo hard to assess what is wrong? and I know part of it must come from anxiety, as her dad and I are splitting, we were to our seperate ways last year, but gave it another go, moved to a new city tha we love, and family at home was very dysfucnctional. Yet even though I feel content for the most part, my husband is not and we keep butting heads, and getting angry in from of her, and when she is in bed. I try to refrain but with no sleep, and the way she has been acting it wears up both think and we are highly stressed.
I guess to sum it up is I just want my girl to be healthy and happy, and not to screw her up beyond!! The parental guilt is so hard. The last few days she has started to wipe her pooh on the wall, which was shcoking as she knows better. But when I googled it thinking I must be the only one, no a lot of older kids do it. That said it is not right and I just could really sue some advice/