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I dont know where to begin....

Hi Guys,

I was raped 4 yrs ago. I was in college, had never been on my own, didnt know how it worked, and ended up in a room with a guy I hardly knew but trusted him simply cuz i didnt know ppl who would cross boundaries without the other persons consent! I told him I was a virgin and he didnt believe me!

Long story short He put his penis inside me and with evrything that I had in Me I pushed that assole off of me ...and I started bleeding (The time that he was in me for was like 7 seconds I think but it literally felt like it was forever!) Anyways the worst part was what came after i immediately went into the bathroom and shut the door and i started bleeding and bleeding and bleeding...i knew a little bleeding was normal but it wouldnt stop! 4 hrs into it-- it wouldnt stop! I really didnt know what to do or who to call! I come from a very cultured traditional family and was scared to tell em (They still dont know) but it was coils of blooody stuff coming out of me!....till this day idk what it was! When i started to faint and feel weak and the bleeding wasnt stoping thats when i knew we had to go into ER and he did take me (probably cuz he was scared ********) but we ended up in a random hospital but by then the bleeding slowed downbut was still there but the random nurse didnt do much except just push the area with her finger or something... i lied to her and said it was just our 1st time, nothing more!

Since then it hasnt left me! I got a yeast infection/bacterial infection ever since then! ...Ofcourse he blamed me for it and told me i gave it to him but clearly im a virgin never even kissed a boy before him so u figure it out! ...I got treatment but it just wont go away and since then i have told 3 doctors about what happened with my rape and no one of them have done anything in terms of checking my body to see what happend with the rape and what those bloody coil things that came out of my body that night were!... Im thinking it is defi related to that as to why my yeast infctions wont go away! THey found some protein in my urine and got it tested for diabetes but NOTHING! ....and now as in last 2 yrs I have been getting funky green stool and its really bad and I googled everything and it says I could have anything from stomach ucler to cancer! I am really scared cuz it means i have blood in my stool and I am only 23yrs old...I made an appointment with the doctor for next week but i just feel like she wont do anything and ill be disappointed with another one yet again!...i cant be spending money everytime but having melena is not a smal issue! I really didnt know where to put this so I but it under Abuse support!... What is your guys assumptions as to what it could be? I know no one here is a professional but this is my way of not panicking about what i could have and kinda asking ur guys support in that sense!  
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THANK YOU ROCKROSE

for giving me all your suggestions!

I seriously appreciate them so much!

I made an appointment for Friday and will try to break down everything to the doc so she doesnt feel overwhelmed

Will keep u updated on the progress!

LOVE
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Nikki,  it's very hard to tell what's going on here.  I think sometimes people appear in the emergency rooms with such unusual stories,  and in sort of a state of panic,  that they aren't taken seriously.  I can't even picture what a coil of blood could even look like,  or what could possibly cause it.  

So now,  you have yeast or bacteria (these are opposites,  and treating one causes an overgrowth of the other,  which is often treated then) infection that keeps recurring.  

And you also have green stool,  which isn't melena.  Melena is black stool,  it's black as black and tarry.  You wouldn't mistake it for green.

Green stool can be caused by a number of things,  one of which is antibiotic use,  or also overgrowth of bacteria in the intestines,  which treating yourself orally for yeast could cause.

So.  From here,  I think you need to pare down your story to make it understandable by a medical professional,  and not absolutely overwhelming.

I would leave out the rape.  Rape or consensual sex,  doesn't change the physical symptoms you dealt with.  I think right now,  when you go in to the doctor,  you need to deal with the physical,  in as clear and calm a voice as you can.

Start with saying you have a complicated history,  and several symptoms are a concern.  You've had ongoing yeast/bacterial vaginal infections beginning 4 years ago when you first had sex and ended up in the emergency room nearly bleeding to death.  That was undiagnosed and unresolved.  

Now,   you have consistent green stool and are now also concerned about a stomach/digestive problem.

Leave everything else out at first,  it becomes overwhelming to hear about coils of blood and rape and stomach cancer.   I don't think it will help zone in on your physical problems.

Best wishes.


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Oh and I had anemia and hypothyroid before the rape
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