IDK!!!

Yes today was my last day at school, and this kid well my friend who is a male........ Been asking me out for half the school year, and i keep telling him no and to stop asking me!!!! Well today he sat next to me and we rub his hand on my leg, he made me VERY unconfortable, i jumped back in my set and he moved a bit closer, than later he sat that he wanted to tell me a secrete and he kissed me.......... i couldnt say anything, my brian wont stop thinking about it, idk what to do we are in ESY together and i am scared because of what he did....... Is this something i should bring up with my teacher at ESY? I feel REALLY unconfortable around him!!!! What should i do? =(

[margypops]

Well its not okay if it made you uncomfortable so tell him that and ask him not to do it again, you are 16 and I am assuming he is around the same age, so just tell him No.

[jo929]

I agree with marypops. tell him no, because sometimes if you let it go they may try more, if he does not stop tell someone, and stay away from him if you can  luck  jo

[Gennipher]

You should tell him he needs to respect your boundaries or you will not be friends with him any more. If he continues you should also tell someone before it gets out of control. Nobody has the right to touch you or make you feel uncomfortable like that.

Good luck!

[blujay12]

I think that you should tell a teacher about this, because if it makes you uncomfortable, it's not acceptable. Also, it could get worse later on. So you should go tell someone that you trust about this before it gets too far.

[Leah17]

Thanks everyone for the comments i am sorry that i didnt return any!! Yes this is all undercontrol now, i told him to stop it and if he didnt i could tell!!!
Thanks everyone =)

[faithfulchild]

I am sorry that this guy has been so respectful to you.The fact that you have been showing clear indications that you are not interested is enough to communicate that you are not interested. The fact is that he has been asking you out and you have been declining. Just in case he does not get the message clear enough, you need to tell him exactly how you feel and what he needs to stay away. When you do this, make sure you tell him in a public place so if he tries anything everyone can be your witness. Furthermore being alone with him can be very uncomfortable for you.Also try to keep a balanced distance from when you say what you need to.If this does not work then tell your teacher and your teacher will know what to do.


All the best

[faithfulchild]

Sorry it should be disrespectful *

[allmymarbles]

What you should have done when he first stepped out of line was slap him. That is a traditional and acceptable female reaction. Have you told him in no uncertain terms that you don't want him to bother you? If you have and he doesn't pay attention, tell your mother, or your father, or your teacher. Also you might try slapping him right in class when he makes another advance. When the teacher asks what is going on - tell him or her. That will put an end to it.