"INCESTand Childhood Rape:("

[Hawkeye60]

Having PTSD; "8-Yr.OLD-GIRL-INCEST-RAPE:("
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My girlfriend, Who I Cannot Name... Has had PTSD, since the age of 8Years Old.She is now going on 53yrs.old... Anyway when she was 8 years old she was "Brutely-Raped, UP the Bum, by her Then; 18 Yr.old Step-Brother!!!:(" When i met her 2 years ago, i noticed she had; "Very Loud Extreme,SEVERE-NEGATIVE-OUT-BURTS???" From, Out-OF, No-WHERE???. So, i Asked Her, If She had ANY- Problems as a Child??? Cause, I was Sexually Abused As, A Child, Too:(... Well...Then, She Told Me Everything:(... So, i Asked, If She Got HELP, "CLOSURE; For This, She said, She Told HER-Doctor, and the Doctor Asked her if she Felt OKAY, and My Ex-Girlfriend said; YES... So, the Stupid Doctor told her She's OKAY-THEN:(??? WHAT??? After She Told Me This; ",I Couldn't BELIEVE, What-I-Just-HEARD. Then she Told Me Her; "Doctor was in a Mental Instution???"...And, "Of-Couse I Believed-IT!!!" But I, Was with her for, Over- 2 years... & Almost- EVERDAY; "SEVERE-SCARY-OUTBURST, LIKE-LOOKING @ "THE-DEVIL???:(" Running out my Door-Over 100 times??? and then She told me, "She Could NEVER-EVER;THINK,RELAX,OR-FOCUS, HER-WHOLE-LIFE!!!:("!!! And We Know, What That's From...But, To-This-Day;SHE-STILL-DON'T-KNOW-WHY???:("..& She's still, TRYING-TO-RAISE  3 kids. who Diisrect-Her And they Dictate to their mum??? Not The Opposite, like it should-Be...I've told her to get help, and she Refuses saying She's FINE; "DENIAL"...So we split-up because of her Angry-Extreme-OUTBURSTS, as "I Just couldn't Take it-NO-MORE!!!" I threatened to call police and report her older Step-Brother. but she said she would Deny it. But, i know if i told the Police who and where her doctor is, then they could take the Doctors Computer. Then Find, the Real-Truth.From the Doctors Computer... and Charge this Sick-LOW-LIFE!!!" and How many Other Little Girls, Did He Rape??? Now, her Step-Brother who lived just down the road form my EX, Then we meet his wife; and she just told my Ex; "That her HUSBAND, Of 20 YEARS,-(That Raped my-EX), was Screwing Younger Girls, A lot of them...And Don't Think for a MOMENT-That I Wanted To Say to His Wife; "That He-RAPED MY Girlfriend-Up The Bum, when she was 8Yrs.old!!!" But, I Had to, "Hold-BACK, MY-THOUGHTS". Cause My girlfriend Would have Left-Me Immediately,PLUS; I Didn't Wanna; "SHOCK-HIS, NOW-EX-WIFE:(" Cause she was CRYING @ The-Time...Now, he just Moved from the Reserve to ANOTHER FAR-AWAY-LOCATION!!!"...With the YOUNGER-GIRL. Now, I want to Charge-HIM; This, "Little-Girl-INCEST-Rapist!!!" BADLY. & "It KILLS ME!!!:( "Can anyone HELP-ME With This Disgusting-Topic???" I'm Afraid, to tell police, Cause she has a Very-Big-Family; (More-Than 15 Kids), and they know where i live??? So. I'M Afraid For My Life; But;"I NEED TO-HELP-MY, EX-GIRLFIEND!!!" Get-Her-Closure. Plus she's trying to rais 3 kids under 16. And the 16 yr.old daughter is Pregnant, And Wants to-Adopt... But My Ex-Girlfriend, Choses to Disprect-Her-Own-Daughters, Wishes and Wants to Adopt the Baby??? evem though my Ex-girlfriend Can't Even RAISE-HER-OWN, LITTLE DISRECTFULL-KIDS??? "I Parented then for the 2 years i was with Her!!!:(" Cuase my Ex only has a Grade 4 Education in My-Culture!!!:( And the Same with Her Kids!!!:( I Feel-REAL-HURT, That she left me By sending me a text-message;).LOL??? go-Figure. But, I Did And STILL-LOVE This WOMAN; "With ALL-MY-HEART!!!:( It Kills-Me, How-She-Left-Me??? And She Loved-Me...ETC??? "Can Anyone HELP-ME, With Any-Kind of ADVICE:(???

[margypops]

I am so sorry to hear about your son....the pain must have been terrible for you, how are you doing today ?

[TheHelperGuy]

Support her, give her help and treat her like a child. She cant help it my son was raped and killed by a pedifile so dont feel alone.

[gina204]

Okay am confused, is their a investigation going on against the guy who did this to her but cause someone else told or something? If so I do hope they find out what he did and put him behind bars. Please Explain! Oh and NO do NOT let HER put HERSELF in DANGER by going to speak to the wife or confront him. Never do that, if the police are on to him or not, either way its out of her hands but if she sees him with a little girl and sees proof of inappropriate touching she should IMMEDIATELY call 911 but holding hands or carrying is not touching, don't want to go into detail but I hope she/you know what I mean. I see the abuser sometimes myself who abused the person in a sexual manner which then the abused did it to me. I see evil in him, he scares me, he only touched but it was enough to make me sick when I see him, my stomach twists in knots and everything cause know I can't do nothing unless I see him doing something and if I did well lets just say I would be calling 911. One time I seen him on the bus and I got this feeling he was thinking sick thoughts when he was staring at a box of childrens diapers that a dad was holding on the bus probably for his kid at home cause the kid with him was to old to be wearing diapers. I HATE I can't do nothing without ruining my life, the only way I could do anything is if I saw him inappropriately with another child, by calling 911. I been through more abuse then sexual by others then the people who sexually abused me and yet I still have faith in the lord, its the only thing keeping me moving through life, keeping me from wanting nothing and its the ONLY thing that stops me from doing anything other then calling 911. If I didn't believe I wouldn't be the kind/hearted/loving/caring person I am today (abuse is one reason but faith is the higher reason) and if I didn't believe, I would just be evil you could say, just wanting revenge. I rather be who I am today and I choose it for the rest of my life, am a good person and not what others have said to me. I hope you both get justice!

[margypops]

I agree with the others Ithink its too late but she can always check it out on line if the statute of limitations has run out as it was 45 years ago. She could still confront him and speak to his wife etc

[AnnieBrooke]

If it happened when she was 8, and she is now 53, the only thing that would be in her doctor's computer would be a later report (like, if she told him recently that this happened when she was 8).  There weren't any computers when she was 8 (with the exception of a few room-sized things in government labs, and they certainly weren't being used for doctors to keep records on).  And a later report would almost undoubtedly be dismissed in a trial as nothing but hearsay.  If manual (handwritten) records were kept from when she was 8 by a doctor somewhere, you know they would be buried in a basement or otherwise inaccessible, but in reality they would have simply have been discarded by now.  

[Hawkeye60]

Yes But its In Her doctors computer the police take that away... it's their

[AnnieBrooke]

I'd try to work out what to do, and if someone should tell the police, and how to do that safely, by talking to a therapist.  If she will deny it, there is little enough you can do for your ex-girlfriend, but if there is some way to provide information about this abuser to the authorities that will be helpful and save some other girl in the future, if you can figure out how to do it safely and anonymously, it would be noble of you to try.  A licensed therapist might well be your guide about what to do, and how to take it mentally (yourself) that all this happened and what your role is in having this information.

Good luck.