What you've described happens frequently in families, so yes, in a sense it is 'normal" and often it is as a result of problems in the home. What you've described would not be considered child abuse, however, it might help, indeed be a requirement that you talk to a therapist to fully recover from your feelings (depression). I hope that you have the option of talking to one and moving on with your life with closure from this incident.
God bless you for posting. It shows what a good heart you have. Please, feel better. You can write to me via private message if you wish. I have experience with the same sort of thing in my life. Liz
Hello, the fact that you even worried about it shows you are not like that. As children we are curious and do silly things!
If u had forced him to do something inappropriate (like masturbate you as u mentioned) then there would be an issue.
As 1 of 3 girls we did silly things like play doctors and look at what each other looked like down there but there was never a bad intention and its not something we did except for probably once. I feel silly about it now but i know i dont have weird/inappropriate feelings towards children ect.
Im a normal happily married person with children.
I really dont think u need to worry about it and if u have a normal relationship with your brother now...im sure hes fine too.
I hope your doing something about your depression though?
-jess
All children are curious and that does not sound like you exploited or abused him. Forgive yourself - you were just a kid yourself.