i just posted the previous question and i have another...
sibling likes to control everyone and every situation. she expects everyone to think the way she does. she reads too much into anything we say, and it upsets her. she has too much expectations. she is or was very thoughtful and would go out of her way to do things for everyone, buy gifts, have surprise partys, all which we never asked for and now she throws it back at us reminding us of all she has done. Then she gets upset and angry and wants to cut off from us.
She forgets about all that we have done for her in more practical day to day stuff.
I cant understand why she is like this. She does not realsise we have been there for her like minions, silently doing things, never reminding her of what we did.
Any thoughts are welcome. Thank you.