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Trust Issues

by Sarah1013, Oct 27, 2009 05:54PM
Im sure a lot of you are going through this as well. My ex was cheating on me along with all the abuse and its all taken a seious toll on my self esteem. I've gotten back to a point where I feel good about myself, but Im still having problems with how other people feel about me. When Im with a new guy I always wonder if he really likes me and whether he would cheat or already has a girlfriend. I have major trust issues and its hurting my new relationships because I always wonder these things. I dont say anything about them because I dont want the guy to know I dont trust him because there's no reason for me to not trust him.

Any advice?
Member Comments (3)

by allmymarbles, Oct 27, 2009 11:32PM
To: Sarah1013
I should think that instead of wondering whether he likes you, you should focus on whether you like him. You have things backwards.

by Sarah1013, Oct 28, 2009 12:40PM
I know I like him. If I didnt like him I wouldnt care whether he liked me or not. Its just I cant trust anybody even when I have no reason in the world not to.

by Sarah1013, Oct 28, 2009 01:15PM
You do realize Im not talking about my abuser right?
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