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1116728 tn?1276797124

how can i get away

hi i am 25 have been abused by a few people since the age of 16. 1st was my babyfather when i got pregnant he strangled me locked me in and out of the house and would tell me im stupid and worthless! when i had my baby he kidnapped her and wouldnt let me have anything to do with her for 2 weeks then when he did let me see her he kicked me in the stomach it all ended when i had his 2nd child and social took her from the hospital becouse of the domestic voilence and now that im away frm him im at ma mums and her friend is abusing us he has hit me pulled my hair and called me a slag and tramp and now he is making me do sexual things to him and promising me that as long as i do this he wont hit n verbally abuse me. I have nowere to go if i did i would b gone and its getting me down i dnt leave the house anymore what can i do?
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757137 tn?1347196453
Of course you have some place to go. As a temporary remedy there are shelters for battered women. Then you can look for a low-paying job that requires few skills. To substantially better your life, go back to school part-time while you are working to develop your abilities. We are sympathetic to your problem and a lot of sound advice can be found on this forum. The rest is up to you.
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1116728 tn?1276797124
thank u hun it means alot to me that u care and u have been very helpfull!x.x
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535822 tn?1443976780
Let us know how you get on and know we care about you.
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1116728 tn?1276797124
thanx 4 ur reply hun and i wil take the advice that has been given!x
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1072551 tn?1258203266
use google you would be surprised how many shelters you can find for women of domestic violence. theyre everywhere. they can help you get your life back together.
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535822 tn?1443976780
So you havent got the children and they are safe , well you are not safe so you leave ...there are places to go, you have access to the PC google your area for help and advice you dont take this ..ever ,reach out..... you came here ,believe you are worth it and he is wrong its called self esteem, I promise you escape this life near him, you will be glad you did ...
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1116728 tn?1276797124
no my children where adopted due to my ex partners abuse against me. thanx for ur answer to my question hun
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535822 tn?1443976780
I assume that you have a child witnessing this abuse , for her sake you have to leave, contact the social services ,they will help you, this abuse will affect her all her life , she sees and hears it ....You do have somehwer to go, people will help you reach out there are places to go to for protection for you and the child ,I see there is a second child also, please seek help.... Good luck
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