is this normal

[misscutie1]

Hi I been with a guy who lived with me didn't ever pay bills or work I felt unloved and used one evening we was arguing over me asking so many questions bout him working with me asking him what all he wants to do for work he kept saying I was bitching when I'm just talking than he up and starts packing his things saying we not good together well it upset me and I popped off fine go somewhere else to mooch off of and it pissed him off he shoved me choked me at same time had huge stick in other hand Like he wanted to smash my read in than he let up grabed my phone stabbed it threw it broke holes threw my house telling me he no mooch cuz he helps around the house....my question is is it normal to miss this horrible person don't say bad shot bout me cuz I not going to contact him just want to know bout feelings

[misscutie1]

Thanks I will its hard but everytime I miss him I just think of all bad he done and it helps

[AnnieBrooke]

It will get easier.  Please devote some love and time to you, and allow yourself to heal from the traumas of that relationship.

[thatquietgirl]

Yes, it's perfectly normal to miss someone whom you've loved and cared for despite the negative qualities and this incident which showed its true qualities.  However, I admire you for being strong enough not to contact him.  It's a very good idea to stick to that.  Keep looking forward and keep your chin up!

Best wishes!