pleas help me i need advice quick

[tyonaB]

Um hey I'm T.t and I have a problem an need help ans some one to talk to well me a in my so called fiance have been having serious problems he has tryed to cheat on me he has sent pics of his private part to a gurl from a chat line he does not pay any attention to me and he has chocked me n blacked my eye I have no family or friends were I'm at this is his home town well the other night his brother was talking to us like he cared and that same night I had a dream that me n his brother was together and I told him his brother and two days later which is today he told his brither which is my so called fiance and at that time I was sitting in the car and he came out of the house and punched me in my mouth and now I have a busted lip and he was telling me I was a hoe n a ***** and that he does not want me but when I found out he was talking to other girls amd he cheated on me and when he blacked my eye I stayed around and now that I had a dream about his brother and told him he's making it seem like I'm such a bad person and now I'm feeling so guilty and bad I don't no what to think or do please help

[remar]

You have to get away from this guy. I see that your only 19, have 2 kids, gave one up for adoption, had 2 miscarriages and want to get pregnant again. Why?!! Why do you want to keep having children with a man that beats and mentally and verbally abuses you? There are places for young women like you to go to and you'll be safe. So will your children. They can help you get a place, a job and go to school. In the mean time, please think about having any more kids with this guy. The kids are the ones that suffer the most. Is that fair to them?

[margypops]

For the children's sake you owe it to them to leave it will affect them all their lives ,watching their mother being abused .Leave you will be glad you did ..

[allmymarbles]

You ask a question knowing what the answer is. And there is only one answer.

[teko]

Call the cops and have him arrested/removed from the premises or take the kids and go to a shelter. Where there is a will there is a way, no way should you be staying with someone who hits you, period.

[RockRose]

Since you already have a thread here in this forum about this abusive relationship,  it might be easier to follow this story if you continue to post in one thread - that way it's easier to follow your history and see everything that's going on here.

I agree with Chesh.  Call the cops.  With the evidence still on your face,  they will find you a place to stay at a shelter.  

Also if you have a sex dream about the brother of a man you're in a relationship with,  it's probably not a good idea to tell the brother.  That puts him in a really awkward position.

For your children's sake,  you need to get out of there.  Don't wait until the evidence on your face heals.

[cheshchesh819]

Go to the police they will find you a safe place to stay there is help out there i know you feel alone but honestly you are not

[tyonaB]

I don't have any were I cam go here and I have no money right now he want help me find another place to go when I try to leave he begs me to stay and tells me how much he loves me and wants too be with me I hate living like this an the brother I had a dream about the one who went to my so called fiance is still n are home I feel he should of left he lives with us I'm tired of going through this stuff now I'm laying n bed with a busted lip and he hit me right in front of are kids he's heartless

[cheshchesh819]

Are you still with this guy,the advice you will get from us will always be the same,remove yourself from him for the sake of yourself and more importantly your kids,why you would want to stay in this relationship is beyound me,there must be a shelter someone that can help you and support you.