sister needs advice

[misscutie1]

Hi my sister just came to me with the problem  for 6 for 6 years married for married for one she just yes she's always sick wi yes she's always sick with a cold stomach cramps GERD carpal tunnel anyways their marriage has not given hi the reason why he gets upset all the tim the reason why he gets upset all the time why she sick she says that he put him down she's he's getting fed up with he's getting fed up with it told her that he wants  told her that he wants a healthy woman  a feif you love  if you love me you should be with me throughout my sickness not against me he told her that every time she sick he feels depressed she said that last night they got into an argument about it that he actually had shoved her  won't even look for wor still tells her he loves he everytime I get off the everytime I get off the phone he stil sexually I'm not that close to my sis what should I tell her to d an any suggestions I would greatly appreciate it thank you

[misscutie1]

Thank you

[RockRose]

I'm sorry your sister is going through this.  I think this is really hard on couples where one person is chronically sick if there isn't a very clear diagnosis of cause.

It's even hard when there IS a clear diagnosis.

Illness of one partner is a cause of a lot of divorces,  actually.

I don't know what encouraging words you could offer,  besides listening with a loving ear.

Best wishes.

[misscutie1]

Sorry my sister husband gets mad at her for getting sick instead of being there for her he wants a healthy woman she informed me last night that he put his hands on her because they were fighting overr her being sick so often I need encouraging words for her

[RockRose]

Mscutie,  could you take another attempt at posting this?  I can't tell what you're saying at all.