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slapped kicked punched in front of my kids.!!
We were arguing well all day and I told him not to eat my food since he wants to always take away What's his like when. He's mad he's like gibe me the car keys give me this I pay for it. So since I cook I told him don't eat my food I went to take his plate and he punched me in the arm in front of my 1 year old. I looked at him like what did u do that so he started screaming and my 2 year old came out the room as I hit my bf back he starts screaming and I told him not in front of the kids. I turned to walk away and he punched me in the face while my back was turned. and aggressively shook me and started cussing at me. I put my kids in the room so they wouldn't see all this and turned the tv volume up. As I'm fixing the tv for my kids he says come out so u can get it. I'm like you're real tough huh. Given I'm 28 weeks pregnant and just yesterday I was released from the hospital for preterm labor. I'm so scared and sad for my kids to have seen all this especially my 2 year old he always screams when me and his dad argue he understands everything. I need help to get away I know it's up to me but the first step is always the hardest
Dear Mommy ,
I am sorry that you have to go through all that In front of your kids and in your condition but I have to ask you , is that the environment that you want to bring up your childreen ? I have lived with a man like that once for four years till the day that I realised that it wasn't only about me but my baby also and I wanted a better environment for her , if your boyfriend is abusing you now and you aren't even married I will advise to leave while you can for the sake of your kids , get some help with the domestic violence institutions and remember that God never forsakes his childreen .
I am sorry that you have to go through all that In front of your kids and in your condition but I have to ask you , is that the environment that you want to bring up your childreen ? I have lived with a man like that once for four years till the day that I realised that it wasn't only about me but my baby also and I wanted a better environment for her , if your boyfriend is abusing you now and you aren't even married I will advise to leave while you can for the sake of your kids , get some help with the domestic violence institutions and remember that God never forsakes his childreen .
I agree and he will not get better mostly they remain abusive, its also not good for the kids to see this violence how do you know he wont turn on them.I say you should consider leaving for the children's sake .have you family would help you ?
Get in touch with Domestic Violence intervention programs in your community. They understand ALL of your thoughts and fears, ALL of his thoughts and internal dynamics, ALL of your options and obstacles to implementing them. They are motivated to help you and with compassion.
Most of all, seek God for wisdom, guidance, courage and people to connect with.
Most of all, seek God for wisdom, guidance, courage and people to connect with.
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