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Should I break up with the one that got me into substances?
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Should I break up with the one that got me into substances?

Should I just live expecting him to relapse again and again, or I should I end it and deal with it? He's clean now but I don't trust how long it will last before the nightmarish way I was treated comes back.

I know to quit drugs, should I go it alone, or not leave my friends and family again for him and try to make it work? Gah.

I enabled him and gave him my money too, now I worry if he'll still expect it from me etc. What should I do?
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Hi and welcome. We dont owe anyone anything and if he is interfering with your life to the extent that you are living his life then by all means leave.
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Don't worry.. Trust him as he recovered from this habit.. Don't give him money and try to be with him... If he still persists you only for money then you should take a step forward to move into your life without him.
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