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10623623 tn?1414292089

I am not going to jail!!!

I know this will be moved to social, but so many people on this forum have helped me, so I wanted you all to read this. Today at court, my attorney struck a deal with the prosecutor in which I will have 8 years of probation but will be able to get off in 3 years if I behave well, $1200 fine, 200 hours of community service, and, the big one, deferred adjudication. I will not have a misdemeanor or felony on my record!

I have been clean for 5 months. My therapy is going well. My children are happy, and they will not have to know a life with their mother in prison, which is all that matters! I could not be more grateful for the support I have received on this board. I have not posted much lately because it gets kicked to social, but I am still here lurking. And I love you all and care about you very much.

I believe I had a deal with DominoSarah: We were going to celebrate on MedHelp when this day came. It is here, and I could not be more relieved. I will ace this probation and get off in three year. I know I can. My attorney said most of his patients will use, hire him when they get arrested, and go right back to using. He is very proud of me for turning my life around as I have, and I suppose the prosecutor noticed as well.

I am just so relieved. Have a wonderful day everyone!  
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I was thinking about you and wondering what had happened...I'm SO GLAD about your outcome!!!

And you're 5 months clean...that rocks, girl!

I'm still off opiates as well.  It seems like a distant memory now...I'll have 6 months in a couple of weeks.

So..you can get on with your live, your wonderful kids, all of it.  Congratulations; I just KNEW you'd be alright!

Hugs,
-Robin
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3197167 tn?1348968606
What a WONDERFUL thread to find today!!  Since they changed the site, the ease at getting to our communities is non-existent!!  So glad I finally checked the social forum today!!

You are right.....GRACE is a gift......undeserved favor.....and I know you have to be bathing in the peace you now feel right now.  Thank you for coming back and sharing with us....a lot of us were following you and wondering how you were doing.  A HUGE congrats on 5 months clean!!

You've got this wonderful new slate to write whatever you want on it....and you're off to a grand start.  Don't be a stranger....there are lots of people that can benefit from your experiences......the strength you are finding....and the hope you have hung onto.  Helping others truly does help us....nothing can describe that feeling until we experience it ourselves~

Congratulations......sharing in your joy☺  
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1235186 tn?1656987798
Oh huni I am so happy for you. You prayed and believed.
Yes faith can move mountains.
I am very proud of you. Congrats on your clean time.
Keep on keepin on.
I hope and pray things are better with your husband.
Continued blessings,
Debbie
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4113881 tn?1415850276
That's great news, congratulations!
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10623623 tn?1414292089
I haven't reported anything to my job yet because I don't know how I am supposed to say it. I have contacted my education attorney, and I am sure she will tell me what to say. I won't have a felony or misdemeanor, but I may have to say I took deferred which means I was not let out of my charges, so they still may let me go. Also, I have to make this official by having it read to me by a judge, so I don't want to say anything until next month when it is signed and sealed.

I feel like I just need to take this one step at a time. Whatever happens at school will be OK because I get to stay with my babies, and that is all that matters. My attorney said that he still doesn't get the prosecutor, and he basically thinks she is pretty mean, but he fought hard for me. He also said that he has a teacher in the exact same situation as me, and her school fired her. It is only by the grace of God that this has worked out this way. I prayed so hard, and I had faith that God would deliver my from my fears, and he did.
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495284 tn?1333894042
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Let the celebration begin!!  I think we start out with a happy dance, Minnesota style~

I am so happy for you!!  First off, Congrats on 5 months clean and continuing on with your therapy...You got a really fair deal with the courts.  I am so glad it is over for you and now you can really live a happy clean life,  Has your job said anything about this?  Oh this makes me so happy!!
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hey congrats...now you will know that when you have faith things will work out...we always have a chance as long as we dont use
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5986700 tn?1380791380
Ya refills, I just love that too....that's what I love about the show intervention ...so awesome seeing them allll put together at the end......I'm hard wired for happy endings. Lol

L&L here's to starting over fresh .....all the best! Hugs
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10623623 tn?1414292089
Rats! Moved to social. I hope others who have supported me get a chance to see this. Thank you all for your kind words. I am definitely making this second chance count. I promised myself every night that if given a second chance, I would not screw up again. Now, I have faced the only thing I have every done to break a law, and I can start over fresh.
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10996785 tn?1432812977
This is very good news. Love it when I read something good happening to one of us. Now run with it....
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7163794 tn?1457366813
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YeeeeeHaaaa!!!!  This is fantastic news. I'm sure your nerves and your stomach can now take a break!  I'm very glad for you.....you've been given a gift of a 2nd chance.....MAKE IT COUNT!
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Oh thank goodness,  so happy to hear from you. I've been thinking about you. So glad it turned out good. Take care of you
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5986700 tn?1380791380
Omg, that's such great news!  I've thought and spoke of you often.. Very pleased for you.   Get on with your life chickie...you've earned it. Hugs
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