I just read your replies to my post yesterday and you are all truly amazing. People have stereotypes of what addicts are - weak, uncaring, useless people, and this forum just shows that it couldn’t be farther from the truth. Just look around, this place is full of the most intelligent, hardworking, caring and loving people I have ever met. I really mean that.
Last night I told Josh I can’t have the pills around, I have proven too many times it breaks me. No matter how strong I feel, I will have a weak moment and for that reason I can’t have them near me. I told him if he needed to take them he needs to hide them – and hide them well. I have found them too many times. Or like Shel is doing, buy a safe. I think that is a great idea. When I told him that, he confessed that he has been taking them when he shouldn’t be. He has taken them for recreational purposes before and he feels that is what he is doing now. He said the pain hasn’t been bad, but he kept taking them. He has never had addiction issues like me, but I know being “a little bit of an addict” isn’t any better. He has a different mindset and the ability to recognize the problem and fix it without the deep rooted issues I have. But regardless, this is something we both need to work on. I’m surprised it happened with what he has seen me go through. Well, I shouldn’t say that. I’m not surprised, because those pills are demons and they can grab ahold of anyone.
I have my appointment at 10:30am (California time). I don’t know if I told you or not, but this psychiatrist also specializes in Addiction/Chemical Dependency/Substance Abuse. I think that is perfect. I have this feeling I’m really going to take to him and that he is going to be a big factor in my success. I already had the appointment set up and I’m glad, because I need it now more than ever. I will email you all when I get back to let you know what happened.
I haven’t had any today. Well, I ate them all yesterday so I don’t have a choice.. lol. But I didn’t want any anyway, I want to be done with this. I just need to figure out what was broken so I can fix it this time.
Love you all so, so, so much.