was I druged

I was with a man and had an agreement that we were going to explore each other without having sex.i had not had any sex for 4 yrs and just wanted to experience somethings without sex.Well this man was attempting to give me some fullfilment then I started to feel different.I felt as if I was paralized and I felt as if i was losing control of myself.I was scared and felt helpless.My heart rate started to changed to speed up.As this was going on I thought I maybe he had giving me some kind of sex drug but remembered that I didn't eat or drink anything.I didn'y know what do,because I didn't even know what happened.Could he applied cocaine

[gizzy32]

It's hard to say by just reading a post if you were or not, but it does happen. Are you positive it was not a panic attack? A friend of mine had it happen and got drugged, she blacked out, woke up and had no idea what happened. I highly doubt it would be cocaine, how would he apply it? Either you sniff it, smoke it or shoot it. Just be careful ok. I truly hope you were not.

[dominosarah]

I was thinking panic attack too.  Have you been with this man for awhile?

[avisg]

yeah I dont think so hun I think perhaps I am trying to put this in a delicate way you reached enjoyment level you had not in the past ???? maybe ????

[Mangee]

If you can't remember what transpired then there is something definitely wrong. Even if you had reached the ultimate in a sexual gratification, you should be able to remember most of the aspects of it. The fact that you were unable to remember speaks of a drug of some sort. In your case probably the rape drug. If you had the ,'No sex agreement,' in place at the time then there is no doubt you were drugged. Unfortunately the information you have given leaves a lot to be desired. Without more info it is not easy to try and figure out what may have happened. From what you have posted it is easy to speculate and give comments such as mine and the others posted here. As it is, my answer is pure speculation and comes from what little information you have given, So take what I have said with tongue in cheek but give what I and the others have said some serious thought and let us know what you come up with.

[122 Tactical Fighter Group]

No - - Coke isnt that kind of thing and it would be most challenging to apply without your consent and knowledge.  It also would not be responsible for the feelings that you describe.  The classic "date rape" drug is rohypnol ......... although it may be "painted" in an empty glass and then become active in solution after a drink is added - - - you indicate that you didnt eat or drink anything.   I tend to agree with avisg ..........  and thats good news for you!  

[GA Guy]

Is there something that may have happened 4 years ago that could have triggered a panic attack? (these aren't questions for you to answer here..just to ask yourself) You just mentioned that you haven't had sex in 4 years and had an agreement not to this time. If there was some trauma 4 years ago, then you very well may have had a panic attack. It also may simply be the fact that you climaxed, which could be a new experience for you. You never mentioned if you ever felt as though intercourse happened?

[casper43]

Wow I was given the date rape drug.. it didnt affect me like that.. I was dancing and the next thing I remembered I woke up in a field with two men.. left my system as quick as it entered but they did find a small trace of it at the hospital.. I to think that you may have expierenced panic or do you smoke I have heard of that they can lace a cig with it.. good luck...

[Mangee]

Rohypnol can act in many ways depending on your metabolism and even your weight. It can take up to thirty minutes for it to take effect and can last for many hours. It can cause memory loss so you may not remember whether or not you had a drink before. I am not downplaying what others have said. They may be right and I very well could be wrong I am merely mentioning that there are many sides as to what may have happened. Many drugs can cause memory loss and there are a lot of them out there with easy access to. What I suggest, is that you be on guard if you are still with this person, because until you are sure that he was not the cause of what happened you could be at risk and as the saying goes ,' It is better to be safe then sorry.'  Hopefully I am wrong and he will turn out to be a great person.

[avisg]

I highly doubt she was drugged . I think she has not been involved with anyone in 4 years and that's alot of pent up feeling all coming out at once jumping to the conclusion she has been slip a date rape drug in very dangerous and without merit we the info we have been given.

[leeisgettingclean]

not enough info to say one way or the other

[dominosarah]

She stated she didnt eat or drink anything.  

[leeisgettingclean]

if nothing was ate or drink than how do you think the "drug" was delivered? I do not think you were drugged, i agree with the others about it more than likely being a panic issue

[Holliee]

I am going to have to agree with avis on this one. I remember one time after leaving an abusive bf I did not have sex about 6 months and when I finally did wow so maybe