I can't take it anymore. I'm tired of living a lie. I've been addicted to tramadol,oxycodone,oxycontin,and hydrocodone over the years. Currently addicted to almost 200mg of oxycontin a day, and who knows how many mgs of Norco. About 20 10mg pills to get me by,if I don't have enough oxycontin. I am not going to Rehab, I am open to attending N/A meetings but going to rehab is not an option for me.I have tried to taper hundreds of times over the years but I cant control myself,even when having my mom hold the pills to help me taper, I berate,abuse,and emotionally beat her up until she hands over what I need. I am a horrible daughter,and I cant take the guilt anymore. Cold turkey is so dark and scary, I've done it without choosing to (because of running out) several times..I get into a psychotic panic and can't take the dark mental place that comes with cold turkey. But theres no other option. Has anyone heard of Kratom? for opiate withdrawal?
I also used to go cold turkey periodically due to running out, and I can say that the last cold turkey that I chose to do was worse in some ways and much, much better in others. It was worse because it was scarier knowing my goal was lifelong sobriety. It was better because I was finally breaking free, able to feel good about myself, and doing the right thing for the first time in a long time.
This site was also a big help to me. I recommend you post here frequently, read the stories and help other people when you can. All the regular posters here have been through the same thing as you and will be tremendously supportive. Knowing I was not alone was a real eye-opener and really helped me.
I'm not sure how intertwined your mom is with your addiction from what you said. If she IS close to it, you should really think about asking her to get involved with Al-Anon or another support group for family members of addicts. Doing the same things and following the same patterns after you get clean will be a recipe for relapse, so it's important to clean house and truly make a fresh start, and that includes the important people in your life.
I've heard of Kratom but didn't use it myself. My opinion is that it's the old trade-one-opiate-for-another game with that stuff. At the same time, I have heard of people using it to mitigate the worst of withdrawal, so I'm not 100% opposed to it. But it takes a pretty special kind of person to successfully use it for that purpose, and for me, unaided cold turkey is what I needed to do.
I'm sure it seems daunting to quit, but you can do it! There are a ton of people on here who have made it through to the other side and you can too!