Hey struggeling.
I too get a lot of flack for the amount of time I have been spending here over the past few weeks. Just ignore it. This site saved me in every way in a time when I did not know which way to turn.
You might allow her to have a look at some of the actual posting you are doing to calm the waters a bit. I know it's not the point, but if it helps her to understand what you are actually doing, why not?
Also, anyone not familiar with the struggle of sobriety is not going to understand the DAILY commitment it takes. Keep it strong.
Matt
STAY STRONG AND IF YOUR GIRL UNDERSTOOD WHAT YOU WERE GOING THROUGH THEN SHE WOULDN;T SAY NOTHING ABOUT YOU POSTING ON HERE THIS IS NOT A DATING SITE THIS IS A SITE TO FIND HELP AND ENCOURAGEMENT TO GET THROUGH ANOTHER DAY !!!! KEEP POSTING DON;T LET HER MAKE YOU STOP!!!