Hey, how awesome are you writing at 2am after surgery? I always miss these posts because I'm looking on your page. Sorry Ike. But I knew you'd kick this out of the park! What a guy. I am so happy for you my friend!! Really sorry I missed this post. Rest up buddy!! Great news for sure!!
Your friend,
Cathy
XOXO
So glad to hear this ike
Hugs!
Praise God, my friend,
Cant wait til your home.
The power of prayer! And positive thinking!
Yaaaaay! AWESOME! Continued prayers out. (0) x
All the best to you! Get well real soon!
Praise GOD!!! Thank you LORD!!!
So great to hear from you.
Rest up.
Praying for healing and a continued good report!!
Much love
Debbie
Hey everyone. I'm Laying in bed 2:00 am reading all posts over again as I begging healing journey. Doctor says surgery went really well and he believes he tore out all cancer! My friends in this community are way too great for words alone. Sending out big best hugs to all, even though that would be against orders. Gotta go, Much Love to all....ike
Ike you are and will be in my thoughts and prayers.
It is great to hear that you are hopeful and positive.
That makes a huge difference.
Please update us as soon as you can.
Praying for wisdom for the doctors.
Praying for your comfort,peace and healing.
Praying that the angels surround you and guard you.
Hugs for you my friend,
Debbie
Sending you prayers and support. I wish you fast healing and a full and complete recovery. Please keep us posted.
Hugs
I feel so bad for you. You have come so far and I know that you struggle. Have you decided to do any aftercare? For you I mean in the way of counseling? I ask because, like you, I was frozen with guilt when I first got clean. I didn't think I could put one foot in front of the other. I got into counseling and that lady helped to save my life. It was amazing what I discovered about myself and my warped perceptions and my emotions and inability to live life like a normal person. I really hope that you will consider it. I want the best for you and I know you can have it. Have you talked to your doctor about all of this?
Please keep posting. Everyone is here for you. Keep your chin up honey. Sending hugs.........
I wish I could be there for you. I'm glad the surgeon will take you first when he's good and fresh. Ike, my notes to you are my pleasure, because you have chosen me to be your friend. So thank you brother...There aren't many people I like in this life, but you are one of the few that I am proud to call my friend. Thank you Ike... Please don't worry, I know it's easy to say, but it's hard for me to think of you suffering in your mind about this. I am praying hard and so are a lot of other people here. There is nothing that will happen that you can't beat it down like the dirty crap it is. And you DO deserve all the good fortune the good Lord will give you. Because you are a good, deserving soul. I wish I had more encouraging words, I'm giving you all I can think of. All the good that's in me..I am sending to you.
Cathy
XOXO
You will be in my prayers morning, noon and night until you get through this.
So much support. But I guess that's nothing new on here though. haha. It's no wonder I talk about this community all the time. Surgery is first thing Wed morning. The one mass is growing into my right kidney. This is a problem in that it takes a different technique to be removed. My left kidney has a smaller mass and was to be removed. Because of the complexity of the right kidney surgery the left kidney will be left alone for now. There is also something showing up on my liver. It may be nothing or something?? I am taking a small dose of an anxiety med. I really don't think it's doing anything and I have only taken it a few times. The past seven months seems like seven years.
I want to make sure I thank everyone. I can feel the love and it's awesome. I've read every post at least five times or more and they have helped me retake control. I know there are many more praying for me out there and thank you for that. Right now I'm cool. Tomorrow night we stay at my daughters house which is close to the hospital. The doctor rearranged the schedule to put me first. How about that? I have a lot to be thankful for. MH included and the people on here especially. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You....ike
Hey buddy,
Just sending you tons of hugs, and prayers. Your a jewel of person, and we all know it. God, has you Ike, right in the palm of his hand. Your gonna whip out this surgery,and come home and live the life you deserve. Gods Favor is raining down on you.
xoxoxoxoxoxo
Hey Ike,
You sound so good! I know how that anxiety can grip you and you feel your whole world is falling apart. I went through a total mental meltdown myself this weekend. I hate that. I think it's all a part of the withdrawal process and learning how to cope with such difficult situations w/o any drugs or alcohol that we are so used to using to help us get through the tough times. Right? It's so hard and we are still learning how to do it. I know I am. Sometimes I wonder if I can even make it one more day, but then I do. Then another, and another...What else can we do? So, my friend, you will go and get this over with, and then go home and live your life again with your family. You got this Ike!! Go in there, and I want you to go kick some a*s and come out with some names!! Piece of damn cake my awesome friend. I'm here for you always.
Kat
Whoaa and Wow! Thanks to everybody. The caring responses are something to behold. Feeling better today and I'm thinking I'm as ready as ever. Had a particularly bad night a couple of days back. The anxiety has been real high for a while now. Recovery is not a free pass to be be left off the drama list of life. Stuff happens and sometimes it's not all good stuff. My recovery remains at the top of my list. I read Weavers quote by Gandhi, which has been posted here before, "Pain is Inevitable, Suffering is Optional". Why do we do the things to do to ourselves? I just wanted to say Thanks again and let you all know, I'm Back and doing much better....ike
Hi, I'm in tears for you as I write. You've got some lovely words of comfort here. I just want to be part of them. I think about you every day even though I don't post. I want to take that all away for you. You will be in m thoughts and prayers n the 17th, along with the rest of your angel posse. Much light and love finding their way to you. (O) x
Hey Ike,
God I'm sorry I missed this post, but wasn't on this weekend. I know how afraid you must be, but you will beat this. This is not gonna take you down. Always remember that. Think positive always and know that your friends are here to hold you up when you are feeling down. Medical treatments have come so far and people are responding very well to new technology. You're gonna be ok. You have an army behind you brother....
Kat
XOXO
IM only on day one and feeling everything that you describe. I know its a ling road aho butt being here and able to get it all out really does make it better. I hope you get to feeling better
Hey buddy:
You have every right to experience some bad days. Let yourself go through them, but try to keep busy. and remember that every new sunrise is a brand new chance to have a different day. I can't remember; do you go to meetings?
Slow down and breathe. Everything is going to be okay...we are all in this big jumbled mess called life TOGETHER, and the anxiety you're experiencing is common to every human being on the planet. Try not to project into the future...just do what is in front of you on THIS day, and know that you are loved...by your family, friends, recovery community, and most importantly, by God.
You can do this, my friend. You are strong, and have much, much more power than you realize.
Keeping you in my prayers, hon. I haven't been on here for a week or so (busy and getting ready to go away for a week...for a much needed and quiet vacation) but I wanted to answer you...xoxoxox
-Robin
hey ike. everything you're saying sounds like a very normal reaction to a very serious challenge. i know you have what it takes to meet this challenge! you're a fighter and we will be right here fighting with you. i like what vicki said. do what you need to do to take good care of yourself.
Well said. So well said Msdelight.
You know we are all allowed a pity party sometimes. Get mad. Cry it out. Yell and scream. Then pull yourself together. Stand up straight and tall and face the day and new situation with a clear head and strong resolve. Say I CAN I WILL!!! And walk out into the sunshine of the day.
You are stronger than you know. You have faced many things recently. And have beat them. Stay strong. You will get through this all.
It's a scary time for you Ike and it's great that you're sharing your feelings and letting yourself be vulnerable. That is the way you need to face a cancer diagnosis.
Draw strength from the people around you and from your loving friends. Keep an open mind. How are you treating your anxiety? Are you just battling through it?
If you were to take an anti anxiety med now it wouldn't have anything to do with your clean time. You need to keep your stress level down so you have strength to physically fight for your health. That's how I feel about it.
Can you tell us what the plan is? When is surgery?