Is my boyfriend taking drugs?

[maxybaby]

My boyfriend is acting very different I have been with him for 7 years.  He looks high to me, his eyes look like he's been rubbing them red and tired but glazed at times.  Every time I think he as had something to make himself high he seems very active wanting to do jobs around the house, talking a lot more than usual.  When hes out of the house hes not been answering his mobile or its even switched off and he just says I never heard it ringing or it went off in my pocket or he seems to take alot longer going somewhere and getting back home than usual, and he doesnt want sex with me anymore I feel like he his hiding his whereabouts from me and not been totally honest he's acting shady.  I need some advice on how to know if he his taking drugs and what drugs if he his.

[Amandag78]

Ive been down this road before and i agree. If your first thought was suspicion, your probably right.  Unfortunantly it sounds like hes doing more than just drugs. Hes also being secretive and not answering to your calls. Absolutely confront him. If you cant have trust, you cant have a relationship. This is a sucky and hurtful situation your in and i feel for you.
Anything he has started doing differently lately is a sure sign.

[marycarmel]

Trust your instincts.

[Merri123]

It sounds like he may be. Are his pupils tiny too?

You will need to confront him with a drug test in hand. Or just be very firm. Tell him you are not an idiot and know the signs. Fess up or prove it.

I know it is hard. I had to do it myself. Have you decided what you will do if he is?

DO NOT let him draw you into it. DO NOT start doing it with him!!!