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MY UPDATE!!!! I NEED SUPPORT
hey everyone....
WOW....soooo many new ppl here, its hard to keep up :) i've been very busy this past week getting ready for my girls to come and now THEY ARE HERE!!!! they came in yesterday afternoon and i havent been this happy in FOREVER!!!! I will need ALOT OF SUPPORT these next few months to help keeo me from turning to my meds to cope. A Little Update...my ex-husband new when i moved, if we decided to stay, the girls would stay up here w/ me. Well, we are staying. I am off ALL drugs (execpt the small amount of pain pills i'm taking when i hurt) since i have been here. THANKS TO SO MANY OF YOU AND YOUR SUPPORT...MUAH!!!! well i found out from my oldest daughter yesterday that he plans on them coming home in only 3 weeks!!!! basically he doesnt want them to move now (there is alot more to all this i wont bore you with) anyways i have "custody" and they are staying here. PERIOD!!! but it will be a very trying time for me as i work thru all this. oh ya, my mother (who i also left in Florida, dont even ask, lol) is all in the middle to. My grandma who lives here in Wisconsin has cancer and only a few more months. so my mom is coming here in 3 weeks to visit her and as "no surprise" to me. she actually thinks she's gonna p/u the girls to see them and then not bring them back!!! But fly them back to FL to thier dad. So as i said i may be asking for support thru this. the old me would have just popped about 5 pills to deal. But thats not me anymore!!!! so how are all of you doing? i feel so lost with all the newbies here.... so post me back and give me updates....PLEASE!!!! the girls dont let me have much time for reading and catching up....
luv ya,
tink :)
P.S. i forgot to tell you, my tooth went "wacko" on Monday, i've barely slept, so i went in today and they had to clean out my root and for the FIRST TIME EVER....i didnt ask the dentist for pills....WOW, i amazed myself!!!!
WOW....soooo many new ppl here, its hard to keep up :) i've been very busy this past week getting ready for my girls to come and now THEY ARE HERE!!!! they came in yesterday afternoon and i havent been this happy in FOREVER!!!! I will need ALOT OF SUPPORT these next few months to help keeo me from turning to my meds to cope. A Little Update...my ex-husband new when i moved, if we decided to stay, the girls would stay up here w/ me. Well, we are staying. I am off ALL drugs (execpt the small amount of pain pills i'm taking when i hurt) since i have been here. THANKS TO SO MANY OF YOU AND YOUR SUPPORT...MUAH!!!! well i found out from my oldest daughter yesterday that he plans on them coming home in only 3 weeks!!!! basically he doesnt want them to move now (there is alot more to all this i wont bore you with) anyways i have "custody" and they are staying here. PERIOD!!! but it will be a very trying time for me as i work thru all this. oh ya, my mother (who i also left in Florida, dont even ask, lol) is all in the middle to. My grandma who lives here in Wisconsin has cancer and only a few more months. so my mom is coming here in 3 weeks to visit her and as "no surprise" to me. she actually thinks she's gonna p/u the girls to see them and then not bring them back!!! But fly them back to FL to thier dad. So as i said i may be asking for support thru this. the old me would have just popped about 5 pills to deal. But thats not me anymore!!!! so how are all of you doing? i feel so lost with all the newbies here.... so post me back and give me updates....PLEASE!!!! the girls dont let me have much time for reading and catching up....
luv ya,
tink :)
P.S. i forgot to tell you, my tooth went "wacko" on Monday, i've barely slept, so i went in today and they had to clean out my root and for the FIRST TIME EVER....i didnt ask the dentist for pills....WOW, i amazed myself!!!!
GIRL--- you better fight for your girls..if you have custody i don't think he can do anything..But i am no lawyer..DID not ask the dentist for pills,,GO GIRL you are definetly on the right track..
good luck and keep us posted
good luck and keep us posted
Good for you! I am so proud of you honey....and so glad your girls are home with you now. I'm so looking forward to great america.....I just hope I can get someone to cover for me at work....call me tomorrow and lemme know when you are planning on going. I NEED a little great america vacation! lol
love ya
jen
love ya
jen
Hey! Is it totally crazy over there yet? Did you hug for 20 minutes?
YEAH!!! I'm so happy they are home finally!
Love you!
Beck~..~
YEAH!!! I'm so happy they are home finally!
Love you!
Beck~..~
NO, theres nothing he can do. BUT... i was gonna drive them to Kentucky for "his" family reunion on June 12th for a few days, then pick them back up. Well, obviously, thats NOT gonna happen. I WONT let my mom take them now w/out me being there the WHOLE time!!!! it's just really hard for me to be like that. but i will do WHATEVER I HAVE TO DO. a little history, he left me for his G/F now when my youngest was 6months old. we had a house, business (we started together) and "I" walked away from it ALL. I let him have everything, because i didnt want my girls to have "parents" who fight. Well, i COMPLETELY got the short end of the whole deal (heck, he drives a "brand new Hummer" and i drive a "junker", LOL) , but to me it was worth it if it meant "happiness" for my girls. So you can see how "emotionaly hard" this summer especialy will be for me. I just want whats best for them, and they want ME!!!!! so your D*MN RIGHT, i will do ANYTHING i have to keep them happy.
tink :)
tink :)
that was my next question---Was where do they want to be?? i was sure it was with you but had to ask!!
Girl don't let anything stand in your way of how good you are doing, and keeping your girls with their moma..you did the right thing by just leaving..Why fight?? i did the same with my first husband and i don't regret it..i was a bit poor but it didn't matter because i had my daughter!!! and she was worth more money then anything!!
good luck
Girl don't let anything stand in your way of how good you are doing, and keeping your girls with their moma..you did the right thing by just leaving..Why fight?? i did the same with my first husband and i don't regret it..i was a bit poor but it didn't matter because i had my daughter!!! and she was worth more money then anything!!
good luck
Stay strong Tink....you've been looking forward to this for months....the time is here so don't let anything stand in your way. You are mentally more healthy than you were when I first spoke to you in Feb so you have it in you to stay strong with your meds and don't let your ex scare you....you are their mother and they will be with you now....Did you guys sign any type of agreement? How's your relationship with your mom? Can you trust her and talk to her about this?
Just enjoy being with them now....they got their mom back!
Peace,
Marcie:)
Just enjoy being with them now....they got their mom back!
Peace,
Marcie:)
Hi Sweetie...I am so happy that you have your girls back and please don't let your ex or your mother (I cannot imagine how hard THAT must be) diminish your happiness in any way!
You have come so far in so many ways and everything you did you did for your daughters, in many ways I am sure they know that. However, from what I understand I don't think your ex has a chance in hell of getting those girls permantly, especially if you have sole custody. Do you have anything in writing regarding the move? If your like me, no...too trusting of others! Whatever...you have them now and God help that man if he messes!! We are all here for you Tink and we will help you in any way we can. Stay strong and hang tight. Love ya, E
You have come so far in so many ways and everything you did you did for your daughters, in many ways I am sure they know that. However, from what I understand I don't think your ex has a chance in hell of getting those girls permantly, especially if you have sole custody. Do you have anything in writing regarding the move? If your like me, no...too trusting of others! Whatever...you have them now and God help that man if he messes!! We are all here for you Tink and we will help you in any way we can. Stay strong and hang tight. Love ya, E
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