I have to say I agree with calamity you might actually be pushing him in the opposite direction then U want to be . There are time even addicts HAVE to take opiate pain meds to handle then pain .I had to after surgery I made sure I only had a small script and had my other half give them to me .I think you have some good intentions but you have to let him make his own choices .
There is a general procedure I go through with my rehab facility for surgery. In fact, I did it last week when I had my wisdom teeth removed. First, you need to let all physicians know of the addiction issues. It's also a good idea to have an addictionologist (a physician who works with addiction patients) to consult. Before the surgery, you're given a drug test. The idea is to let the brain know there there will be a beginning and end to the procedure. The surgery takes place. If pain meds are used, the patient NEVER handles the prescription. My wife had mine, and I never even held or read the paper prescription. The person handling the medication gets them filled. After the surgery, If and only IF the patient needs them, they are given ON SCHEDULE by the person holding them. I never had to use mine because Motrin took care of the pain. The patient HAS to be honest about pain levels. After the pain subsides, the medication is flushed and witnessed by a third party. A few days later, you're given a last drug test to end the process. Of course, all of this has to hinge on the patients honesty on pain level. There are good medications that are opiate free and able to relieve pain. Toradol is a good one. NOT TRAMADOL...Toradol. Very different medications.
Hello. Girlfriend of addict. First of all let me say I'm sorry about your BFs accident. There are ways to manage real pain. I am in pain but not as much as when I used opiates and I now use advil or aleve. Excedrin tention for headaches.
BUT your BF is the one that will make the decision. If I had a BF telling everyone of my doctors about my addiction it might just p me off enough to show you just how powerless YOU are. Honey get to a meeting. YOU and tell HIM about this site and see if he will read alittle and maybe post if he wants. I, even now, with over 2 years from a 8 year addiction would not try to stay clean for the first few days after shoulder surgery. I wouldnt subtract the time of recovery from surgery from my clean time unless I KNEW I used even one pill extra when I could have tried a advil. Recovery is personal. YOU can't control a persons use. The addict makes the decision.
Toradol is a non narcotic antiinflammatory pain reliever that is very effective.I would stay away from tramadol if it is suggested.It is touted as a non narcotic pain reliever,but it is a narcotic and as addicting as any opiate.There are various form of an otc pain reliever called percogesic that are quite effective for pain and non opiate.