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The pain killers came when he had a stroke,back pain and knee pain which resulted in surgeries. He doesn't really know where he's at in the way of pain....is it the meds or does he really have pain, neither of us knows.
As far as Subuonex goes, it is prescribed through a Dr at a facility where he begins group therapy tomorrow.
The thing that bothers me is he hasnt' gotten hardly out of bed for the last 5 days because of neck and back pain. Now I have read that withdrawal from opiates mimicks past injury pain. I have also read that Subuonex doesn't get rid of withdrawal symptoms it just makes them more tolerable.
I hope your situation will improve with time and prayer. Don't loose hope. You are a young man and some injuries just take a long time to heal. My husband got a knee injury in high school that kept him from getting a scholarship for football, so through his suffering in the loss of a dream, I have the utmost compassion for you, friend. Take care of yourself.
surgery does always relieve pain.some have a better response than others. Pain relief is a right. The problem, is those that become addicted to the pain medications give pain management a bad rap. Studies show that only 1% of those with chronic pain become addicted to their pain medication. they need that medication to function and their body will utilize it to provide relief.
There are many alternative treatments for pain relief. Keep trying and have faith that something will work.
Chronic pain is no laughing matter and everyone has the right to pain relief.
Diane carbo
assuming that your husband is not in withdrawals(because of being 15 days clean and now on sub) i think it's fair to say that he may well be in pain and the sub may not be providing enough relief.
I know that's probably not why he's taking it but nethertheless it is a reasonable pain killer for some people.
has he considered raising his sub dose to get pain relief?
I know many people will be outraged at that suggestion but it may be worth it in the short term to help him get up and moving because spending days on end in bed is a bad thing and will lead to more pain.
obviously the decision to change his dose is between him and his dr.
but has he considered it?
good luck to you both.
Nick.
i am in total agreement with you and feel the same way.
Diane Carbo
I have chondromalacia in my knees, degenerating discs and significant lower back pain. I'd give anything for these to be fixed and be able to live a normal life again, I'm only 23 and love hiking and sports and have been unable to do these things because of it. The opiates help me to do things I love by making the pain manageable, but it took over 2 years for doctors to take it seriously. I was treated, and told I was making it up, many figured I was a drug seeker as well.
Something needs to change here, our entire healthcare (and taking care of military veterans as well) needs a serious revamping. A "developed" country shouldn't be this fearful and let people languish in angony because person B may have abused the drugs.
yes it is sad the we are a civilized culture and yet we allow people to languish in pain. I am in total agreement with you, something needs to change. Know one believed that my son was in pain. The doctors told him that they would have to cut off his leg ( no longer and option in this century!) if he did not work through the pain. As a "good soldier" he did what he was told.
The problem was, he worked so hard that his affected leg became stronger than his unaffected leg. Rare for his condition. but he paid a severe price for that. When he attempted suicide, the doctors told him to get it right next time. Yes, the doctors. They continued to see him as a drug seeking individual, even when they gave him so much medication that he stopped breathing. He was given narcan, an antidote for narcotics. he says it burns like fire going through the veins.
My son was affected at 25 years of age. He is now 30. You are just a babe and you both are too young to experience such gd hardships. I hope that opiates continue to work and you experience continued pain relief.
The medical delivery system continues to use pain measurement as the fifth vital sign, yet, when you tell them what you are experiencing you are viewed as drug seeking.
hang in there. Continue to battle with the doctors until someone hears you.
Diane Carbo
Yesterday he trimmed trees, bushes, put in an arbor for me. The day before that he dug up a hole in the back yard because I tripped and almost twisted my ankle in the hole. He wanted to see what was causing the problem and dug up a huge tree trunk. So go figure.....you guys tell me why he has pain?????? Some of it is real (without doing anything) but there again some of it is self induced. Gotta love him though.
Thanks for commenting.
Tell you why he has pain? Girl! at any age one should do things in moderation.it sounds as if he goes from one extreme to the other. Neither are good. To much activity can cause pain and bedrest is not good either. pain is definitely worse at night because all the outside stimulation is gone and we are able to listen to our bodies.
You are right it is definitely self induced. You do not go through back and knee surgery
and abuse your body like that.
It sounds as if your husband is a very active man. As we age, we need to learn to be gentler on our bodies. The consequences we pay are severe, such as pain.
I was in a car accident recently and have just been diagnosed with cervical myelomaliacia. It is the softening of the spinal cord due to trauma. If I do too much, I am in severe pain. If I sit or lay around I am in too much pain. your husband is not in withdrawal any more. He is in pain and it is legitimate. He has made some bad choices and until he changes his ways there is little anyone can do for him.
hang in there. he seems to be an individaul that may have to learn the hard way.
As far as his anxiety, the doc made need to put him an paxil of some other medication to assist with that.
Diane carbo