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I have two kids right now, so this has to be short. Don't feel bad about yourself. Take care of yourself during the pregnancy and don't go cold turkey. I just had a baby five weeks ago and was on percocet (same as vicodin pretty much) all the way thru. narcotics have very little effect on the fetus. rest assured, you are not harming the baby with the amounts you are taking. the issues about wanting to stop, you'll need to deal with when you are ready, but going c/t ca stess the baby and stress your body. I've posted many times about my experience, so go thru the archives and you';; find all kind of info.
my baby was born fine, no defects, no withdrawal symptoms. no problems.
I could go on and on, but I really just want to comfort you by saying I took 5-30 mg of ocycodone a day and tapered down to 1-2 tylenol 2's by the last few weeks as I was scared the baby would be addicted, I know women who have taken much more with no problems. My ob said it was fine, and I spoke to Motherisk and they said the amounts I was taking would not be harmful other than a slight chane of addiction at birth (didn't happen).
go to: www.babycenter.com - bulletin boards - pregnancy boards - pregnancy complications and go to "chronic conditions" there you will find a thread called "anyone else on pain meds?"
there are 150 posts by women like us. most of the women had the meds prescribed by doc (as in my case), and there were some who took two pills a week, others who took 10 pills a day. All babies are fine!
I am not saying it's safe to pop pills -- however, in your situation, as long as you tell your OB what you have taken, or at a minimum tell the attending physician at the hospital at birth, you and the baby will be fine.
I am so sorry you have no support and your husband is in Iraq. I would be happy to answer any of your questions or give you any support you need throughout the remainder of your pregnancy. I have been in your situation, and even with a legitimate reason for me to take the meds, it was very hard to stop.
please don't worry, and post me any time!
liz
However, it sounds like you really want to quit so I just I wanted to point out that if you think you are taking them just for the feeling vs. true chronic pain, then what you may be feeling on the "no pill" days is a form of withdrawl symptoms, - "the standard achey (achy) all over, depressive, can't get out of bed except to run to the bathroom constantly - in desperate need of imodium (immodium)" - which will subside. If you aren't taking that many, and can stand making it through 3-4 of these days, you will come out on the other side A-okay and done with the withdrawl!! Have you tried more than a couple days without?
Of course, taking any drug is not the ideal thing anyone would want to do, but sometimes we don't have a real choice, especially if you have true chronic pain issues. However, I think it is SO--- important that everyone follows their gut instincts, as that is always the best bet -- I've learned that the hard way in dealing with doctors. Don't let them intimidate or rule you, they work for you, not the other way around, and they should cater treatment to your best interests/wishes. Let your inner voice be the one to talk to your doctor on that next visit, and hopefully you can come up with a plan that you are more comfortable with, as it seems you aren't going to rest continuing on with the way things are now.... Remember: You can do whatever you put your mind to!!
Thank you lashamummyof2 for giving me the encouragement that I need. It is truely very hard to go through this pregnancy alone, especially since it is my first child. But know that I have posted my question and realized I am not the only one, I don't feel so guilty now.
Thanks again!
If you have talked to your doc, then everything will be fine. It's always terrifying when we don't know what to expect, so we hide from the truth. In my opinion, just from the pregnancy standpoint and not discussing any addiction issues, your baby will be fine. I was shocked at how many women were in my same situation, it made me feel better, but I was still nervous up until the day the baby was born.
You're taking a small amount now, so it's good to recognize that it's easier to stop now than later (again - don't go c/t now this late in pregnancy, listen to your doc). I am struggling with taking pain meds since the baby was born as I still have terrible back pain. I hope to get off totally, but with a toddler and newborn, it is very difficult. You are not alone.
Please keep me posted on your birth and the outcome...I'm sure you will have a perfect little baby!