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The problem with what they want you to do is A they are exposing you to the drugs you have managed to get off of . B if you snitch on the wrong person someone cloud hurt you and your son does not need to be without a mom.
that does happen my dad years ago was teaching a class for a college and they found someone dead in the schools compound come to find out it was a snitch that had been killed .
In the end if you just go to court, you are not going to get in all that much trouble. Some yes, but you have a drug problem and they will probobly put you in a program for that..........or something!!!!
Stand up, take your knocks now and deal with the reality of what you did.
Ask for help with keeping off drugs and point out you are clean.
With the way jails are freeing really bad criminals, how could there be space for you?
january43
Good luck. He's just trying to scare you and help him. He doesn't give a flying flip about you. You will be fine.
I wish you the best.......
Luv,
Nauty............
I would say DONT inform. The informant did more time for his offense of selling oxy than J did. Not even the cops respect informants and they make sure the people on the inside know what they are. It's not a good place to be.
You could go to jail tho even if it is your first felony.......my bf did. It was his first time in toruble, with drugs, and he got a felony 5. Course, we live in Ohio and they are strict here.....he even had a really good attorney.....but see attorneys are in bed with judges and it just depends on favors for each other, etc. He did 1 years jail time for less than a gram of coke. No priors. And, he asked for **************. Jusge said no. Maybe the judge just didnt like him.....or wanted him. Anything is possible but still. Someone above said it is up to the judge and they are so right on. Not to mention, I have never heard of an informant getting paid $50-$100 per bust.
In order to avoid this or that or awkwardness........id tell them u dont wanna snitch because u are a recovering addict, been clean and really fear if you go around your old connects, you will relapse. That is respectful and i dont see how they can argue that. What would they said "Well tramhamilton, that's great ur clean now but go ahead and go buy drugs so we can put more ppl in jail and make more money" They cant say that.
Be honest with the judge because he is the one who will call the shots. Also, get an attorney if u can afford one. I know they are mad expensive but they of course will work for you and get a deal with the prosecuting attorney.
Good Luck. I am sorry u are going thru this.
What state do u live in...
hard time believing that
ur boy is doin 3 - 5 years for distributing drugs NOT BC OF A DAM SNITCH!!!!!!!!!
FUK A DEALER, snitch all day save ur *** they sure as hell dont care nothing about u me or anyone else, they just money
I feel I need to be available to him, in case he needs help with peer pressure to do drugs or other things. I can help him by using my own experiences.
1: Go to an NA meting, get a sponsor. Tell them about the situation, be up front and honest. ATTEND at least two meetings a week.
Ask your sponsor for a letter if he can't come down to court with you showing you've been going. Be realistic, tell him you know he can't do a glowing letter of recommendation as you're so new. He/she will respect that. Or should.
2: Look into any kind of outpatient programs you can go to for counseling. Try to get some sort of documentation showing you've enrolled, or have started attending if thy can take you right away.
Take these documents down with you. Courts are much more impressed by actual, physical proof of your intent than just your word you'll do better.
It would help if you can provide a drug test showing that you're clean, but I don't know if you could get the results by the 5. If you're clean now and go in in the next few days, you may get it in time.
At least with these proofs, you'll have a better chance of probation only.