TO :"WORSTMOTHEREVER"

[tohealth]

PLEASE DO NOT FEEL GUILTY!!!

Your baby is already born. Do you understand? He or she is no longER an egg in your womb, but a living human being in your "belly"

Look at pictures of yourself, your husband when you were babies (if you have pictures) and other babies, and think about these babies as YOURS. LOVE THEM. That what mother do?  YOU were "made" for that.

Maybe your baby will be a "rocket scientist", or flip hamburgers. NOW, for your sake, and your baby's sake IS NOT the time to worry over about a future you cannot predict. I suspect, as a non-doctor, that if you take take care of yourself now, your baby WILL BE a "rocket scientist" if she or he would like to be one.

Please make certain that you are taking a lot of vitiamins and minerals supplements...if you have the money. If not, ask your government for help. This can go a long way is helping secure both you, and your child's physicial, and emotional future.

Fall in love, and love your baby NOW. He or she is already born from an egg. He or she is alive now. Take is easy, take care of your health - emotionally, and physically.

I look forward to hearing from you after you child is born!!

Take it easy and take care.

VM
Victoria, B.C
CANADA

[grievingwidow]

I did not think there was ever any doubt that she loved her baby?  Why are you preaching to her about loving her baby?  What is the deal about the baby being born from an egg?  I have no idea what you are talking about, hopefully worstmother will.  Anyway, I surely never got any indication that she was saying she did not love her child. Actually, it was just the opposite, I believe she was stating that she loved her child very much and that was why she was worried about her pill-taking.

[tohealth]

Yes,  I understood...I hope that she will understand what I am saying to her.

If she does not, she can respond, and I will clarify.

I POINT IS SIMPLE IN SUM: DON'T FEEL GUILTY.  I "sounds" simples, buts is also very complex.

Best Wishes

V

[grievingwidow]

You are probably right, it is just very complex.  I say that sincerely.  I thought about that after I posted, it is probably just way over my head.  sorry.  Just so she gets it, that is all that matters.

[addictedtoloratab]

First of all she did not say she did not love her baby, second of all she does not have a husband.  She sounds like she is really concerned and is here to take the appropiate steps to get help.  I did the same thing when I was pregnant and the who is to say my kids wont grow up to be a rocket scientist.  I didnt know people had crystal balls here,  Ok, I need to go to bed, I am going to get myself in trouble for running my mouth.  
She has beat herself up enough, geez, its not like she is in a crackhouse, she is being taken meds given to her by her obgyn,,, Ok, enough, I am going to get in trouble, Peace, g

[worstmotherever]

I guess it went over my head too.

I do believe that tohealth has good intentions. I don't feel put down, but I'm not grasping how loving the baby more will solve my problem.

maybe her theory is that if I love the baby more, I would be able to stop??? hmmm, maybe that is a put down...