Just keep being honest w/ yourself and you'll make it, it's when you start lying to YOU that makes it not work and I hope you are doing this for YOU, Oh yea and the racial stuff is prob. being too honest about who you are, I would leave that in your own head cause it is offensive:{
Did I say something offensive? If so I appoligise. One thing I
don't want to do is offend anyone, thats not what I'm about. I
do say what is on my mind though. I am staaight to the point.
And one thing I don't do is lie. Its too difficult. One thing I've
stressed is honesty. Thats how I am with my doctor,and when asked
a question,i give my honest oponion.