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1596864 tn?1333485191

drug confusion

my friends do alot of drugs, adn they got me to try some of them, just pot, but still. i have quiet a ffew people who ask me for some heavier drugs (i.e. heroin) and i almost asked for some, what should i do? and i just found out my father does alot of drugs, as did my mother when she was high-school (mostly pot) but still it's in my blood to do drugs as is alcohol, adn i'm only 15 but i already had champagne. what should i do?
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HI.....your faced with some tuff choices .....I started on drugs when I was 14 they have been in and out of my life....im 48 now and it has taken that long to break free of all the stuff I it very ez to wind up all raped up in this stuff....it slowly seeks it way into you life first it just on the week ends then one in the middle of the week  b/4 long your using everyday addiction is a progressive desiese  I agree with the other posters it probably time to find new friends
all I can offer you is my experience.....life is far to short to watch it go by in a fog drugs will prevent you from reaching your potential witch will effect the rest of your life make the right move and dont mess with them they have nothing to offer except misery loss of money and broken dreams.....if your trying to cover up emotional pain take to your parents or a conslor at school drugs are not the way to do it....yuor 15 you have a bright future a head of you if you dont louse it up with the dope please keep posting to us we will try to help you good luck and God bless.......Gnarly
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1568041 tn?1311615212
When I was in highschool I hung out with all the druggies. ALL and yes I mean ALL of my friends did drugs but I didnt want to (various reason mainly scared of getting addicted or having a bad reaction) so when they would ask I would just say nah. They bugged me for awhile but after saying no for awhile they dropped it and figured more for them. I still hung out with them and we all got along but I was the sober one. Dont do the drugs...it doesnt lead anywhere and basically you dont want to end up a loser like most of my friends did...lol. You can just say no and they will eventually be fine with it. If they bug you to much hang out with other people. Good luck. I have a 15 year old son and he is drug free because he is to busy playing callof duty on ps3. So maybe find other things to do with your time hahaha.
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1648674 tn?1308696316
thats good you have only done pot but heroin thats very bad i know a lot of people whoi have died from it and a lot who have almost died from it i know people who got off and stayed off but that number is really low and i know a lot that have got off and went right back in it is not a good drug at all its one of the worst drugs cause you do it once and you say oh im never doing it again there is a trigger now that will affect you for the rest of your life and its a road you shouldnt go down and your friends are asking you for these drugs thats wrong of them they should be keeping them away from you dont let them make up your life because in the end whos life is it and i bet if you did start harder drugs and you got busted they wouldnt help one bit. they would pretend they didnt know you was on the drugs. just because your father and mother did/do drugs doesnt mean it is in your blood. it just means that you unlike everybody else has a better chance at getting addicted to them. and that is one of the worst things to do. your whole life will be consumed by drugs and you will lie and steal just to get the drugs. the people you call friends will use for drugs as you will them. i know they are you friends but you should go out and find better friends who dont want you to change or do drugs. they want you to be you without the drugs.......and im sorry if this scares you i didnt mean for that.
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1235186 tn?1656987798
hello hun and welcome. i think you already know the answer to that.i am the mom of 4 children. if your parents both did or do drugs you can see the effects it has on peoples lives, and none of it is good. you say it is in your blood to do drugs, that isn't a great thing. addiction is definitely a big problem. read around on these posts and see the devastation is causes to familys and lives, yes even death. you said on your profile page you are going through alot of things right now, well trying drugs and looking for an easy escape are not the way to go. talk to your school counselor, a pastor, an adult you trust who can help you get to a counselor outside of school if you dont want to go that route. please do not start on this downward spiral. tell those kids you dont want drugs and maybe you should find some new kids to hang out with. because they arent your friends if they want you to do drugs. what type of drugs does your dad do and do you live with him? you have a whole life ahead of you please choose the right path and we are so glad you came here looking for advice.
may God bless you and HE does love you
debbie
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495284 tn?1333894042
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Can you talk with your mom about this?   The drug world is a very dark and lonely place to be.  Many end up dying.  We have lost members on this forum.  I know you said your dad does drugs and your mom smoked some pot in high school but that doesnt mean you have too.  If anyone asks you for heroin, run and run fast.  That is the devils drug.  Please take a long hard look at these friends of yours.  I dont want to see anything bad happen to you.....Keep talking to us.      sara
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