"after transferring my new dr. informed me that i was addicted to this medicine, and suggested that i check in to a rehab facility to detox. "
What are you gonna do? Are you gonna go to a facility or try this at home?
" I'm not sure wat to do! my first concern is if ill b able to function to care for my 5 year old and go to work. "
Detox is horrible but so is the flu. Can you function while detoxing? Many do. Many still go to work albeit they have a really rough time. If your going to do this at home and you work a 5 day work week Id suggest timing your detox. Id start day 1 on your friday because although its bad...its not as bad as day 2 and 3. Then...you would return to work on day 4 which should hopefully be a little better. Many turn the corner on day 5 and are better.
Taking care of your kid will be hard so if you can...find a babysitter.
"I'm in pain w these meds, wat is my quality of life gonna be without them? could this medicine be making it worse? "
Nobody can answer what your quality of life will be. All I can say is almost everybody on here has a painful ailment that they are now coping with instead of taking pain meds. In terms of can the meds make the pain worse...the answer is YES. Your pain threshold is higher now that you have been taking meds so long. You will have to be off medication for a while to be able to truly evaluate where your real pain level is at.
If you decide to detox at home...check out the Thomas Recipe.
http://www.medhelp.org/health_pages/Addiction/Thomas-Recipe-Re-Posted/show/16?cid=66
Stay plugged into this site and good luck.