Hello Everyone,
I am new here. I just joined. I read some of the posts here and was enthralled by the kindness and support of this community. I apologize in advance for the long post, and understand if people do not have the time to read it, or read all of it. Any help is greatly appreciated, and I hope to give back to this community as well. I've been studying drug monographs since I was 13 (it's a very long subject), and though it is no substitute for a pharmacist or doctor, or even self-education, it is something I may be able to use to help others here.
To begin, I should start by telling everyone that I am not a drug addict. I know this is a site for addiction, but everyone is so supportive here; other sites I have been to just do not have the same caring. I hope you will allow me here, but if not, I do understand. (I'd like to qualify this by saying my view of addiction has nothing to do with willpower. I just don't get addicted to things. It's not because I have more willpower than the next person. I just don't "crave" things. My father is the same way, which leads me to believe it is genetic. That is another debate though. I just don't want anyone to think I'm high handed about this.)
My history: I have cardiomyopathy and pulmonary hypertension. Knock on wood, my health is ok. I've had migraines all my life, but three years ago they became chronic and unbearable. Long story short, I was put on Methadone to control the pain two years ago. That continued for a year, then when a severe drug interaction was found with one of my heart meds, I was moved to Oxycontin.
I am subject to rapid tolerance, for some reason. My body has always been atypical in responding to most drugs for just about anything. I also have a severe anxiety disorder. I've had this since I was 14, and am 24 now. I was given Xanax for it, and have used it off and on since 15. For some reason, I've never gotten withdrawal from benzos, and dose escalation was rarely necessary.
So back to a year ago when they put me on Oxy. It worked fine, and took care of the pain. But very quickly the dose would rise, and soon it was not fully taking care of the pain. (I was getting migraines every single day for about 8 hours a day or more. 1 out of 10 days I'd get a break and the pain wouldn't be severe.)
I got up to about 120mgs a day for a short period and hated the feeling. (I never liked the way Oxy felt. Tired, and it made me very depressed. Hydrocodone was much more tolerable, but did not provide the same pain relief.) So my Dr. began rotating meds. Hydromorphone, Oxymorphone, Hydrocodone, Tramadol, etc. That did help keep from having to escalate the dose, but it was confusing, and soon just didn't work. (I should probably mention that we tried every non-narcotic drug for pain first. Gabapentin, SSRIs, etc. Many of the traditional migraine meds could not be used in me because of my heart condition, or because they interacted with one of my 7 heart medications.)
Anyway, long story short(er), one day I woke up, took my pain meds, and noticed that even though I wasn't in pain, I could still "feel" the migraine, and it was almost as uncomfortable as being in pain. So I figured, screw it, if I'm uncomfortable anyway, why take the drugs?
So I stopped taking them. I had heard about opiate withdrawal but no one ever gave me an idea about how bad it was. Within two days, I had diarrhea, nausea, hot/cold sweats. My temperature was NEVER right. It was hell. In addition I got began hallucinating, and developed a depression that was so bad I almost killed myself. Mood swings. The list goes on and on, and I'm sure everyone here knows it. (the only thing I did NOT get was cravings for the drug.) But the depression was the worst thing for me. Growing up with a heart condition you learn to be uncomfortable a lot. I'm not used to losing my mind, too. It's too much at once.
The amazing thing was, my migraines had all but stopped! (And they have continued to decline since, knock on wood. No one can tell me why though, and I just wish someone could give me an idea of why such severe pain would suddenly go away.)
I called the on-call Dr. since it was the weekend, and she told me to go back on the pain meds despite not being in pain, and call my Dr. first thing on Monday. So I did and they put me (in hindsight) on a terrible taper program. They took me from 110mgs of oxy down to 30, then tapered 10mgs off every three days. Needless to say the symptoms were just as bad as Cold Turkey.
So I tried cold turkey again, unsuccessfully. Fast forward a month, and I proposed a taper program to them that I worked on with my pharmacist. Begin at the current dose of 80mgs, and taper 10mgs down every five days. I had Diazepam to help me through it, in addition to Ondansetron for nausea. They also said marijuana may help (which I can take legally in my state, and have used before for nausea when I was younger. I don't like the feeling it produces though, so I prefer the Ondansetron unless I feel I'm about to puke.).
Getting down from 80mgs to 30mgs was a breeze. I'm very lucky for that. But going from 30 to 20 has been murder. I don't know what to do. My docs can't tell me why it would work fine, and then suddenly turn on me. That is one of the reasons I turned to a forum geared for addiction. Because everyone here is away from the theory, and knows these things by experience.
I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm never going to get off this ****. I feel like I'm losing my mind. So I went back up to 30mgs today so I could feel well enough to collect myself and decide how to proceed.
Any help or advice is greatly appreciated.
My idea for the moment is to switch to hydrocodone and go down by 5mgs every 6 days instead of 10mgs every five, like I've been doing. I'm just scared to deviate from the program. And I'd like to get off this **** as fast as possible, needless to say. I have access to pretty much any medication I need. Because of my heart, I have a team of Dr.s and they are all readily accessible by phone and email. With this in mind, if there is a way I can continue on Oxy and taper downward instead of having to switch opiates, I'd prefer that.
I just don't know what supportive drugs to use besides valium and some sort of anti-emetic. I'm open to anything, lifestyle, medication, as long as it is cardiac-friendly. Any suggestions will help. I know there are already posts about tapering, but the reason I'm posting here is because my situation is rather different, and in addition, I could use some emotional support.
I've never been through anything this bad. I've been through heart lung transplant evaluation, surgery, many other bad things I'd rather not say, but nothing compares to how bad this is. It's like no matter what there is to be happy about, I'll look at everything as tragic and sad. Like there's no hope. My mind feels cloudy.
Most of all, I feel lonely. I'm too tired to go see my friends, and my family isn't very helpful. Their attitude is so shrewd. They actually suggested that I stay on the drugs despite not being in pain just so I wouldn't have to withdrawal. I think they just don't want to deal with me anymore. I'm trained in biofeedback, and have practiced meditation for years, and nothing I do seems to help. The only thing that makes me happy is work, but I've been too sick to work with the withdrawal. (Imagine withdrawal, PLUS an existing heart condition. It's hard enough to work with just the heart condition.)
The worst part, ironically, is that there are so many good things happening in my life. But my mind seems incapable of enjoying any of it. I get this horrible succession of violent images when I close my eyes. I feel like suddenly gravity will stop, and I'll float to the ceiling. I just want my mind back. Please help me.