To do the second question first-- that taper sounds reasonable. Many people prefer, though, to switch to a long-acting benzo like clonazepam or diazepam first, as that provides a 'smoother' experience and fewer periods where you feel panicky from a lack of drug in your body. But the pace is appropriate for a 'moderately- paced' detox. You could go much more slowy, or you could go a little bit more quickly-- just a little bit.
A couple things about Suboxone, or more accurately about buprenorphine, since that is the active ingredient. Any reversible ligand (a ligand is something that binds to a receptor) is constantly in a state of binding and 'unbinding' from the receptor, and buprenorphine is no exception. There are 'association constants' and 'dissociation constants' that explain the rates of attaching and separating, and the ratio between the two determines the 'affinity' or potency of the drug at the receptor.
The half-life of buprenorphine can be described as 'effective half life', 'terminal half life', or other terms depending on whether you are referring to drug in the body, drug at the receptor, drug in the brain, etc. The effective half life is dependent on dose with buprenorphine because at very high doses (as I have written about extensively on my blog Suboxone Talk Zone, 16 mg is a very high dose) the enzymes that break it down become overloaded, slowing down the overall process. At 16 mg, I have seen studies showing effective half lives of over 72 hours, but there will be variability between different people.
Fentanyl has very complicated kinetics; in low doses it has short duration actions, but after prolonged use it saturates fat stores and starts to accumulate in higher doses in the blood. It is not unusual for a person to feel one level of opiate intensity for a few days, then 'step up' the intensity after that point from the fentanyl building up.
When you started the fentanyl there were a couple processes going on that both limited your early response to the drug; it takes at least a few hours, maybe a day, for the drug to get through the skin and into the bloodstream in significant amounts, and early on your opiate receptors were being blocked by buprenorphine. The block is competitive, so the ratio of fentanyl to bupe would determine the opiate effect. IT would take at least several days, and perhaps a week or more, for the buprenorphine to be absent from the receptors sufficiently to allow the complete effect from the fentanyl. Even then, your tolerance would be high from the buprenorphine, and so the effects of the patch will be reduced.