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I adopted a child because I wanted a family. I went overseas because I didn't want the hassle or heartbreak of anyone ever showing up on my front doorstep asking for their daughter back. In China, these children are abandoned, and I can sleep at night knowing she is truly mine. I do know, however, quite a few people who adopt even after having their own. Some families have just so much to give and want to have big families and give to those who are less fortunate....
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I love my daughter so much, but it's not healthy to live in fear, but even moreso, I have no more to worry about than any other parent does for the safety of my child being abducted I was assured.
I am forever thankful for adoption and the family it has brought me.