I am 21 years old, since I was about seven I have been taking care of my brother and sister. They are both older.
Around that time I took up martial arts and my sensei kind of took me under his wing, my mom and dad were both working all the time so they missed out a lot of my childhood.
From my early teens I was responsible for myself more so than most teens, from twelve up I have been basically doing my own things and taking care of everyone.
Now I am 21 as I have said, I have my own house, on my way to a good paying job and a college student.
I guess I am just not sure where my life has gone, I joined the navy at 17 was injured at 19, and I feel like my parents are more friends than parents.
I feel at times like I have two families, my parents brother and sister, and my martial arts family.
Since my sensei passed away in '04 I feel like all of my friends who went to him for advice rely on me.
I feel like I am the only one of my friends who have actually done anything, is this normal? I am on my own, becoming a success, and I visit friends who are still living at home.
Did I grow up too fast? I am not really sure where to go with all of this.
Sometimes it is overwhelming, is this normal?
thank you