plz help me

last sunday night 3 day ago i am with my girlfriend and i don't know what happend after 3 day she says plz marry i am pregnent i am 20 year old plz help me what can i do for her

[Jason Greenberg, Ph.D.]

If I understand you, 3 days ago you were intimate with your girlfriend and then she told you 3 days later she was pregnant.  If this is correct, I would first say that there is no chance that she would know for sure that she is pregnant.   It sounds to me that she is having a reaction to your intimate experience, and you may want to first try to talk to her about the reaction to the time you spent together.  I also get the sense that you are feeling nervous about her request that you marry her, perhaps you don't feel ready to marry her and are worried how she will react if you were to let her know how you feel about this.  My question is, what is the risk in talking to her about these things?