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look at it this way dear......she ain't getting no prize!i feel for that poor child they have brought in2 this world......GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!why do ppl do this to a innocent baby?how i detest that...makes me nuts!!!!sigh!:(I hope she laid off the alcohol during her pregnancy....FAS in a child is something they never asked for!two sad ppl my dear....be grateful it is NOT U IN THIS SAD SITUATION!
Well today i feel alot better. However, seeing my ex-husband with his lover and baby was hard. Eventhough I know he was drinking and more likely already drunk.... Why the heck do I care? I need to stop wasting precious moments of my life and move foward. So the next time he tries to stop me as I am driving , I will just keep on moving forward. Lies, Lies, and more Lies. As I am barely finding out, alcoholics have a tendency to tell you what u just want to her. I understand it is a disease that breaks families, marriages, and relationships apart. But while I am trying to stay positive and hopeful that D will have an awaken moment, He is leaving it up and just thinking about the next drink. Nooooooo thank you. As my friends say, Stranger Danger stay away.. And it is obvious that i have along way to heal and need to stop letting D open up the wounds everytime he gets a hold of me. Enough said.
know helen reddy's song i am woman?great song!so glad u have had the light go on upstairs!!!u deserve a good life...it is obvious ur ex doesn't want to work for this for himself!mine didn't either and we cannot FORCE a loved one to make changes!please keep us posted on ur progress!
Thank you sooooo much for your advice. Ibizan, your very right about me falling in love with the potential of the man he could have been. This man went from working as a stocker at a store to becoming a fireman. I always told him that i believed in him no matter what. I never saw any flaws with him other than the drinking. I never saw the bad or negative in him. I always believed i was the one with the problem. If i would lose some weight, or give him a living child, maybe he would stop his partying ways. But all I ever got was mental and verbal abuse. I never understood why he could not love me for who i was. Know i realized that i was an enabler and very codependent on him, just the way he was with me. The sad part is that i now see this man falling into pieces and not giving a crap. I know i have to save myself from the insanity. So i stopped calling to check on him at work or at home. As al-non says, What is insanity? Doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different outcome. But you still get the same crazy end. And yes i am seeing a great shrink and therapist. I used cognitive behavioral thera[py to deal with my past tribulations. Now i need to use it with my dissolved marriage. I do ask myself, "What is wrong with me?" How can i still care for this human being after all the things he has done to harm me. But I know he is very sick. And I just need to stay away from. Thanks guys.
Hi and thanks for sharing. My wife and are lucky because we both stopped using and treating each other like crap (most of the time anyway LOL). However I can definetly relate to what you are saying. When she went away to rehab I found that I actually missed all the stuff that would tick me off. We have been together for about 18yrs. 7yrs as boyfriend and girlfriend and 11yrs married. I guess when you are with someone for so long that dealing with them becomes a way of life and when they are gone things just don't seem right. Even after my wife got sober and was actually nicer than she had been in a long time it was hard for me to see that because I kept thinking she was still a B**ch. Do your best to let go and move on with your life. Go out and try new things or get back into hobbies or something that you enjoy. There isn't much you can do for him so please take care of yourself. Life is short, please try to enjoy every minute of it. God Bless!!
glad ur reading that book,,,,and hope u find a good counselor!Women have this very bad habit.....and either we learn our lessons the hard way and wise up...or we keep the blinders on and remain miserable...WE FALL IN LOVE WITH A MAN"S POTENTIAL!!!!! we really hafta get knocked on the noggin hard to wake up.....so glad i did....and glad u did too...it took me three years to stop thinking constantly about my relapsed cruel ex.....today he is a distant memeory and i say to myself...what was i thinking?i thought my love support and the fact that we were a good team was enough....but he didn't believe this or in himself to recover...and i have peace and serenity today minus the DRAMA of him in my life.and men do this as well with women!u say u have no tools or good advice from al-anon?u must be blocking it out!please look at what u have to be grateful for in life......that he is no longer in it driving u insane!