I am concerned over my daughter and son (19 & 17) in regards to my alcoholism. I began struggling with alcohol at 42 (i'm 49 now) . I was never abusive or loud and there were intervals where I wouldn't drink at all. I always spent alot of time with them and coached them while they were growing up and did many things with them as they were growing up. I don't know how far back they remember me being doing all of these things from the time they were little. I was always gentle, loving and supportive, but these past few years they have seen my alcoholism up close for what it is. I don't want them to think they can "solve their problems" thru alcohol and I worry about the example (a poor one) that I have set. I can't change the past. I have told them upfront to learn from my mistakes. Any thoughts?