I managed to taper myself off the pain meds and having living a reasonably healthy lifestyle. I'm not judgmental in any way of what people are dealing with because I understand how hard it is to change a routine or pattern. My wife happens to like beer...really like it. I don't mind her drinking beer at all and sometimes I'll even purchase the exotic beers for her so she could enjoy something else. The only thing I ever asked of her was not to drink and drive and she usually abides by this. But, if I offer to drive if were going somewhere, 4-5 beers before we leave is not uncommon...I believe she is a binge drinker. She usually drinks a 6 pack everynight, weighs only a bit over 100lbs and she gets pretty wasted...I really don't like it. I dont like it because I don't she is who she really is...the beer is talking (she gets dramatic when she drinks). Last night we had to attend a sports function where our son was competing; she was slurring her speech, smelled like beer and she's not paying attention to her personal grooming anymore.
Before anyone states talk to her, understand where shes at, try to figure out why she drinks, etc...I have been with her over 25 years, she always drank some but not like now, she doesn't have to work and usually stays at home, we have a good communication and I have asked her to be cool with the drinking, consider the health effects, etc.
If anyone has any advice, I'm all ears because this is really getting old.
Guy