same dream again

i keep dreaming about my dad which died 23 years ago and my poor mam who is now 86 and as been ill for 3 years now ,
in my dream my dad is always by her bed visiting her at her care home when i was visiting mam a few weeks ago she asked me have i seen my dad think it may have stuck in my mind but it was nice to see my dad in my dream.

[iam1butterfly]

Sometimes, in times of hardship and stress... we reflect upon the memory of those who have been nearest and dearest to us. And, those memories can migrate into our subconscious dream state. So, it's possible that your mom mentioning your dad made an impression on you to where the thought(s) of your father became dream(s) of your father. On a spiritual or metaphysical level, it is believed that the dead never really die... at least, in our hearts and minds, they don't. And that, maybe, your mother and yourself are sensing your father's spiritual presence and reassurance during this difficult time.
In either case, your dream(s) seems to reflect solace. And, we should all be so fortunate as to have such comforting dreams.

[ginger899]

What a great mystery lies beyond death.
My mother, in latter years was suffering with the most terrible dementia. She did not remember things, she did not remember the name of her husband (my father) She did not know even that she had been married.
Then, about 2 weeks before she died, she suddenly said "Joe (my dad) has been to see me. He sat on my bed and said 'why don't you come with me?' I told him I would soon....but not just yet."
It makes you wonder....