angry daughter

I live with my 30 year old daughter, she has a 3 year old daughter, My daughter is always angry, I think it is worse when she drinks. Does not like having responsibility of daughter and ask for my help alot. when I can't help she get very abusive. I don't know how to handle this, if I say anyhing it gets worse. Please help.

[margypops]

How do you mean, is she abusive to the child,if she is you need to speak to her very firmly that she needs to go to the Doctor and seek help,or you call CPS ..if it is you the anger is directed at,would it be possible to talk to her tell her how you feel, again you dont say if its your home or her home as this does make a differance. It is possible she is over stressed and could use some counselling Good Luck .